Had a bit of a fling with a guy going to be working with. We've been seeing each other for about 2 weeks and i didnt think my feelings could be so strong for someone. Anyway he feels guilty about cheating on his gf but still likes me but loves her and not going to leave her. I have really strong feelings for him and dont know what to do now - just gutted!!! Worse thing is i'm going to be working with him every day! Cant help my feelings but how will i cope seeing him!
2006-08-03 04:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by blushing_bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is so so hard. man. dont spend a single minute more with him. the more you see him or are even friends will make it so damn difficult. gutted- i bet. thats the price we pay when we get involved with someone who is involved. it doesnt usually work out. if it is really bothering you emotionally and you cant seem to separate - i think its worth finding another job. this heartache is not worth it. ITS NOT. you need to separate and move on - especially if this is what he is telling you. 2 weeks is one thing, months or years can effect the rest of your life. do it now.
2006-08-03 18:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by canadaboyjake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look what you should do is to end this right now. Think of it as a one night stand and move on in life. Since you are working with him act as though nothing ever happened and keep your distance. Go to lunch with other people or stay at your desk and have lunch. Just do not become close again. He is not going to leave his gf so it is time to move on. You will meet someone else who will charm you as much or more. That is how life is, learning how to deal with the challenges that it presents and dealing with it in a positive way. Just do not be consumed by this. As it says in the "Bible' this too will pass.
2006-08-03 11:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could admit to you that he loves his girlfriend and is not going to stop seeing her and just.. likes you, then he is placing you number 2 in his life.Depends on what you want,if you think you're too good to be someone's no 2, get a hold of yourself and determine to end the fling.
2006-08-03 11:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves his gf.. and he isnt gonna leave her for someone he likes... if he continues to see you and still have sex with you your role will only be the side chick.... sooo try not to get caught up then you already are..
Good Luck.
2006-08-03 11:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by <33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋