iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 yr and weve split up bout three times once every for last 3 yr. this time he got in the wrong crowd and started taking drugs and i didt know and then he finished with me and another girl was with him all the time takin drugs and they were spendin alot of time together(andm8s) but then he rung me outa blue n said his head had messed up on them. he hurt me alot but istill wanted to help him and was just friends, now he says im his world and hel do anything to meke me happy. hes even wrote me a letter telling me how much i mean to him, im trying to give him another go as my dream is to travel world and he wants to come with me next year but i cant get what hes done out of my head, althogh i love him im just scared hel do it again i still wana try!!!!!!!!! does that make sense???!!! help!!??
2006-08-03 03:54:13 · 3 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you aren't stupid, you just have a tender heart and care about him clearly. But it's time to start thinking about yourself now, don't get back with him as a couple, look back on yall's history of him spliting up with you all those times... It will happen again if you allow it to.Tell him u are willing to be friends and help him out that way, but don't let it go further than that. Do this for yourself.
2006-08-03 04:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Texas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid, you are however using poor judgement in allowing him back into your life Here do this for yourself hold both hads out in front of you like a scale and hoesntly weigh this person's good points against his flaws I believe you will find what you already know there are more reasons to stay away from him then to remain associated with him. I actually think you have come to this conclusion already by the way you phrased your own question in your mind staying with him would be :stupid" in your own words so while you sound like a smart girl keep it that way with your actions please get rid of your excess baggage before you move forward with your life..
2006-08-03 11:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Monte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just need to go their seperate ways. Go ahead and travel the world without him. If he really wants it to work, he will be there when you get back. That will give you some time without him to see if you want it to work also.
2006-08-03 10:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by candy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋