Good or Bad??

Question

I spent a lot of my youth being a bad boy and loving it, as I have grown up I have tried to become a good person and have succeeded. Only problem is my ability with the women has faded. Would i be better off being a tw*t again?

Answer 1

NO, You would not be better off. Believe it or not your much better off NOW. Always move forward in life, NOT Back. Moving forward in life is an accomplishment. MOVING BACK is NOT. As an example ONLY, I myself am an alcoholic. I have been on the wagon since 1994. I am proud to tell anyone I am an Alcoholic, BUT MORE PROUD to say I am clean and sober since 1994. NOW I would NOT be able to brag or be proud if I went back to drinking. Same for you, ONLY it is you or your personality that would change. Good Luck in whatever you do.

Answer 2

NO!! We need more like you. The reason the girls have dropped off is probably because you are not as confident as you once were. Or because you go to places where there are slappers that just want a piece of action man.

The thing is some girls do prefer the bad boy because they know where they stand. It is much easier to get hurt by a bad boy, as you expected it from them. If a nice boy hurts you it is un-bearable. So if you are being a good boy make sure that you are completely otherwise you could really hurt someone.

Answer 3

If you're looking for casual yes.....otherwise keep on the path you've taken. A quality relationship is hard to find....and exactly why it's so worth all the struggle to get there. Also think of the repercussions to your self esteem....how good will you feel about yourself if you become an idiot again. Hang in, she'll be there for you soon enough.

Answer 4

No, it sounds as if you've grown, matured and changed for the better.

You are still basically the same person. Look for the best qualities within yourself, bring those out, and some woman will love you for yourself!

I am sure a lot of women out there will appreciate you for your honesty and your changed attitude.

Answer 5

Uh, women like the jerk even if they say they don't, it shows confidence and such, but if you go too far with it, which will depend on the woman, then you risk isolating your self permanently from some... and did yahoo really censor your use of the word twit? or did you do that? cause if it is your doing, then I would risk being more off an ***.

Answer 6

no, just be yourself. girls find 'bad boys' instantly attractive as they appear exciting and thrilling but after a while it becomes too much, so in the end girls just want a good guy. dont worry im sure your ability will come back, maybe your just looking in the wrong places......................after all you cant expect to attract the same type of girls as you were before, so why dont you try going to new places etc. good luck and make sure you act yourself and not what you think others want you to be

Answer 7

I'm not exactly sure what you're inferring here, but it doesn't sound good to me. If you've succeeded in becoming a good person, than why waste all the effort on becoming something that sounds not so good. I'm sure it will be worth it when you find someone who cares.....thats what I have to remind myself every moment I breathe.......

Answer 8

Good women look for good men. Does tw't fit into that category? Don't lower your standards of who you are and what your expectations are, unless, of course you feel there is room for improvement. In that case make some changes for the better self, and not for what the women think. There are good women who like honest, confident men.

Answer 9

The so call problem is you are not attracting the bad girls now. Since you want a new life, then live one. The right girl will come along and when you found her, she will be the one that is yours and will be with you for life.

Answer 10

No. But you could try, is the bad boy look, without the bad boy behavior. At my school, the girls flock to the skators who make zeros on report cards. So, dress however, but keep the good behavior.