She said that she's use to being with her friends all the time. She said that she still likes me. She just wants to go back to being friends and start over. I am crazy about her and i want to know if we'll get back together sometime. I told that she can hang out with her friends and still be with me. I dont know what to do. I really want to be with her. I cant get her out of my mind, everything i do reminds me of her. Some people that i talked to said that i should wait for her to call me.(That is so hard to do though). Please help me out, what should i do?
2006-08-03 03:39:58 · 44 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the best thing to do is move on with your life. I know it is very hard to do, many other pple have been there too including myself. Just surround yourself with friends. Stay busy. Go out and have a good time. Meet new pple. Eventually the pain will ease. If it was meant to be she will come back to you. The more you pursue her, the more she will push you away. Just back off and move on. You may just find out you can be quite happy without her. Give yourself a chance.
2006-08-03 03:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.. If she says she just wants to be friends then u need to accept it no matter how hard it is.. u can't make her take u back.. the last thing u wanna become is a stalker and then she won't even want to be ur friend.. if she needs space then u need to give it to her.. if u decide to call her, then let her know ur just calling to see how she's doing.. don't start questioning her or pressuring her about when ur getting back together because that may never happen...
u need to keep ur options open and maybe someone else will come along.. meet new people, hang out w/ur own friends and then u should be just fine..
accept it for what it is...
2006-08-03 03:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said that to my ex before. I said it because I just wanted to have a fun, no obligation friendship / relationship. She probably just needs some freedom and dont want a serious relationship at the moment. I can tell you really care about her, so I suggest you stay friends with her. This way you will see her everyday and talk to her everyday. BUT tell her you will wait for her until she is ready.I know its hard, but dont let it get you down.
2006-08-03 03:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question how old is she? College years-maybe she don't want to be commited to one guy, she just wants to hang out with her friends. If you truly like her, you will give her the space she is asking for. If she is still interested she'll pursue another relationship with you when she is ready. You need to get out there and hang out with your friends to take your mind off of this girl.
on the other hand. she can be just telling you for an easy way out of the relationship.Either way don't smother her. Let her know you still care for her, and when she is ready you might still be there.
2006-08-03 03:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little curious. Are these other friends that she hangs out with your friends as well? If they are, then I don't see where it will be a problem for all of you to hang out together! This way you will be with her all of the time. And if they are not your friends but she wants to still be with you, then she should want to introduce you to them! If she doesn't want to do that then you should just break up with her. You don't need to be hanging on to her when there are dozens of other girls out there!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-03 04:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect the fact, that she was honest with you, by telling you, she did not want a boyfriend right now. Maybe she feels like you're crowding her and not giving her time, to be with her friends and it may be that her friends, are putting pressure on her, to stay away from you, I say this because sometimes friends, will get jealous because they feel that you're taking time away from them, by being with her. It sounds like you really love her, but you can't make her be with you. Give her the space that she needs, until then, try to move on, try not to get upset and dwell on it, if it's ment to be, things will work.
2006-08-03 03:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Two things; 1. She wants to explore coz shes still not sure if she really likes you. 2. She's got her eyes on someone else (not necessarily someone she really likes, perhaps just interested in.) Just let her go buddy, she will come back to you if youre meant for each other. I understand that its hard, but you just gotta live with it coz you dont wanna go scaring her by acting all crazy. Good Luck!
2006-08-03 03:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by Carl M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are encountering the commonest boy/girl relationship issue.
The best thing to do is accept the fact that she isn't ready for a long-lasting steady relationship.
You most likely won't be able to talk her into anything that she doesn't want.
I suggest that you keep the friendship but be open to meeting new girls who may turn into another romantic friendship.
You will probably have several new girl friends in oncoming years.
That's life.
2006-08-03 03:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by ha_mer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and give her some space. Don't push her AT ALL.
Try and find some other people to hang out with for a while. If she doesn't come back to you, then it isn't meant to be, and you should move on with your life. You'll find another girl in no time!
2006-08-03 03:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad im not alone... Im in exactly the same situation. The funny thing is, its not the first time this has happened to me, and sadly with the only 2 girls ive ever developed feelings for.
They keep u on a string man, that sucks. Learn from my mistakes, like im doing now...
I say fcuk-it. Move on. get laid 2nyt, go hav a joll.
Anyway, i know what im gonna do.
Chow
2006-08-03 03:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pyp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋