Does anyone know what to do about bully problems....I'm getting picked on left and right and the teachers don't do a thing what should i do??
2006-08-03 03:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Venus 2010 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
first of all bullies bully trying to get a reaction out of you, so as long as you give them nothing, they'll find you boring and start to leave you alone. Remember that what they say or do to you is just an act of their insecurity, and it does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. Most of the time a bully does what they do in order to get attention from other people, or to "better them self" which makes no sense, but I've heard it said. There are different kinds of bullying though, one would be that your the hard core bullier (don't know if that's a real word haha) so that basically meaning your the one throwing out the hurtful words or physical abuse. Or two you could be witnessing someone being bullyed and do nothing about it. My advice to you is speak to your teachers and to your parents. I went through this in school when i was younger and I know that its tough, but hang in there. good luck! =]
2006-08-03 03:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Alisia A. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't tried this already, try sticking up for yourself. Telling them stuff like "your a waste of my time" and then not repeating it to them. Walk away from them a lot if feasible. I did this, and while it can increase it slightly, they eventually lose interest. They just looking for someone who is going to be weak and act weak, but if you show them your strong, they'll become intimidated and leave you alone.
P.S. You may also want to know how to fight, in case of an emergency. If you do, make sure you notified that you have been having problems with these other student first. It will catch 22 the school authority and they almost can not punish you. Its a legal thing.
2006-08-03 03:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by tsx000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to fight one of the people who is picking on you. Bullies will keep picking on you just to get a reaction like you exploding or crying but they don't usually expect you to fight them (that's why the pick on you). So once you get in a fight they will lay off because they now know your not playin' games. It's not right by any means but you have to establish yourself so they respect even if respect means not bothering you. I hate to suggest violence but if you don't do stand up for yourself who know's how far you will be pushed. We have all seen what happens when kids are pushed to far...
2006-08-03 03:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i don't know ure age so i wouldn't know what kind of bullying it is but if ure a teenager still in school don't worry about it just ignore them and think of ureself being a better person than them u can take it for a few more years. i experience this too for a long time, but i became a better person and showed them whose the boss! and now life is much better i got lots of ppl looking up to me. take it from me this is something that is just temporarly, that would past u away in time.
2006-08-03 03:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, bullying is not your fault. Be confident even when you don't feel it. Talk to friends and family and ask them to look out for you. Stay with a group you trust when you feel threatened. Keep records of any bullying, like dates, nasty texts etc to show teachers and police.
They are the ones with a problem, not you.
2006-08-03 03:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents/guardians or someone else you trust.
Ignore the bullies
Tell as many teachers as you can, and if still nothing is done see if you can arrange a meeting with your school's guidance councillor and/or with a member of senior staff to discuss the problem and what the school are going to do to help you.
Good luck, and don't let them get you down.
2006-08-03 03:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by puddingpixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you need to do is to stand up for yourself , and do something to make them stop. Most of the time when a person gets bullied it's because that person who is bullying you must think that you are weak, soft ,and fragile. So my advice to you is to stand up to that person and really show that what kind of person you are you are not weak but strong.
2006-08-03 03:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously talk to your parents and maybe change schools In the meantime, keep ignoring the bullies. I use to be bullied at school and I ignored and ignored and eventually they stopped. If the bullies get physical, you might need to get your parents to get the law involved.
2006-08-03 03:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to stand up for yourself... that doesn't necesarily mean you need to be violent but if you have to do it one time then do what you have to do... if you let a bully pick on you once then what's stopping him/her from doing it the next time? Nothing. If you want to know how to be more assertive/aggressive then watch the movie Scarface. You have to stand up for yourself like Tony Montana.
2006-08-03 03:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going in to 7th grade and i got bullied back in 6 th but when i ignored them they left me alone and because it was no fun when i didnt react
2006-08-03 03:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Puddles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋