2006-08-03 03:22:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Give yourself time, to adjust to the new environment, you may end up liking it.
2006-08-03 03:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it too! I moved but only 3.5 hours away. It sucks so bad! We live in his hometown and all his friends are here. Their wives are not nice to me either. Everytime we meet new people they end up being weird or not nice etc... I have been here for 10 months, can not find a job, when I do the pay scale is horrible compared to where I came from. I have only made one friend and she can be snotty sometimes. I tried to like it but I can't. I think that after we have kids it will get better because we will met new people. good luck. I cry a lot more than i ever did too.
2006-08-03 10:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to move. Getting adjusted to a new place is hard and takes some time. I went through this a few years ago. You just have to make the best of it. don't wallow in the hate. get out and explore the new area, try and make some friends. You may see the new place isn't so bad.
2006-08-03 10:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember it's not where you live but with who you live with.. that will make you happy. Sorry, that you feel this way...your husband must feel even worst seeing you that way!
Give yourself a break and time adjust to your new place! Look around there must be at least one good thing and/or positive where you are right now. Hang on!
2006-08-03 10:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by lynda l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to make adjustments and compromises. This is one of those times. Join a church or some clubs and get to know the area. Volunteer to make someone's life a little better. When you stop focusing on yourself, your life will improve.
2006-08-03 10:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do some volunteer work and get out of yourself. It always makes you feel better and is a good way to meet loving and caring people
2006-08-03 10:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to adjust, after you make friends and get used to the area, I'm sure you'll feel better.
2006-08-03 11:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time too cut the apron strings from your friends and family... it's called "cleaving" to one another..... learn to pull on the rope from the same end and find things to do together..
2006-08-03 10:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to make sacrifices...i feel the same way...it'll get better
2006-08-03 10:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by brummy438 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the best of it....sorry that happened to you.
2006-08-03 10:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by krystle33165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋