I've heard people debate about this a lot whilst talking about relationships and, although I think it's best to be open with one's boyfriend / girlfriend / whatever, I was wanting your opinion.
I, for example, am bisexual, -yet-, if I was ever to go out with a guy, would it be 'right' for me to inform him of my sexuality / history with other girls or should I keep such a thing 'under wraps'? I recently read something about a girl breaking up with a boy because he had had relations with another male in the past and that disgusted her that she had not known. Would this neccasarily be a problem in an average relationship? I understand that it would probably be significantly awkward for anyone that the person has been in a relationship with to learn of their partner's sexuality later on, but still.
Is this something to keep private? I know that it's not best for me to keep secrets OR blurt it out to the world, but I was wondering about your view on the matter.
Help me out here?
2006-08-03 03:20:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wanna say BE proud that you are aware of what you like!. Be aware that there will always be Bigatry and hatred. And when you bring up this trait about yourself realize that you are opening up yourself to be attacked or received.
goodluck
2006-08-03 03:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by SECRET woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it a secret at first.., it's personal information and there's no need for him to know. That is... assuming you want to avoid guys who are trying to date you simply to have a threesome, right?
2006-08-03 03:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are concerned about revealing your preferences,then don't It really does not matter, because if your interested enough in someone to be with them, then you will be with them whatever sex they are.
2006-08-03 03:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them - they might like it!!!!!
2006-08-03 03:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by ???????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋