I recently moved to a new state and was talking to someone here about a month before I moved. Last Friday we went out on our first date and the topic of getting serious was brought up by him at the end of the date but it was late so I told him we should discuss this the next day. Since then the calls have decreased by him and when I call him the conversations are very short. Before I moved he would call all the time day,night and in between the day but since the date it has all change. Should I discuss this with him or let it go? I can say that I enjoyed our conversations but from one date I don't know if I want to be with him but I am concerned by the changed since I thought we could at least be friends.
2006-08-03 02:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by mrsuggs1999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Chivalry says, "Let him come to you if you really want him in your life. Right now, it seems to him that you are a nuisance, and if a guy gives that vibe, then he doesn't want to deal with you. However, if you wait and he calls you, then there is a chance he might still feel for you. While you wait, use the time to do some things for yourself, soul searching for example. There is a true gentleman out there for you, so don't tie yourself with someone that doesn't want to speak to you. A true gentleman speaks to his lady."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-03 04:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation with you except the fact that we still live in the same area. But I think you should let him go. It is very hard to, I know because I am still coping, but when you stop thinking about him, you will feel a lot better and you will most definitely meet someone else.
2006-08-03 09:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares?? There are so many fish in the see, From you comment you didnt say whether you slept with him or not? That could have something to do with it? Otherwise put on your makeup dress your self nice and get over it someone new will come.
2006-08-03 10:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by O2BESGL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it, if their is a explanation to this its your decision what happens after. If its worth giving up then let it go, if not try it again, maybe ya can work it out.
2006-08-03 09:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to understand his prob wht he is facing u get ur answer i think so
2006-08-03 09:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and see if he still feels the same way about you!!!
2006-08-03 09:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by jessie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go gurl... i had exactly the same case as yours, and i let it go... now look, he's the one chasin me;)
2006-08-03 09:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by FaBuLoUsElYwEiRd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go just be friends.
2006-08-03 09:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋