I have a wonderful man in my life I'm a single mother he respects me and my children. We go out he helps me with bills he is a wonderful man but i dont know if I'm in love could it be to soon? I feel Like I love him but weve only been dating for a few months(2) and he literally hands his pay check over to me. What should I do?
2006-08-03 02:43:05 · 18 answers · asked by O2BESGL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is different. I met my husband online and fell in love with him within a few weeks without meeting him. We have now been married for 3 years.
2006-08-03 02:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all...if you are in love you can feel it hit you instantly...its weird...i have been in love with my best guy friend for like 7-8 years...I feel like I am loving him more and more each day...I love him. But you know when you are in love and you have that feeling they are the right one. I have no idea what you should do. I think that you should get a job if you already don't have one. Get a baby sitter for your kids...my dad used to do the same thing with my mom and they both worked...but now its all up to my mom...my dad can't really work cuz of his heart problem and his defibulator..he can't be around alot of electronic stuff otherwide it will shut his defibulator off and if he walks away it turns back on...he has may effects why he can't really work..be he has no choice but to try and get a job...so he has been trying.
2006-08-03 09:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when u find love...dont worry about it being too early or whateva.Love is something that u should just let go of and let it free itself.Eventually it will find love bac. I mean if he is taking care of u and your children theres is nothing u can really do but be grateful and thankful.But again if your in love your in love,love is a powerful thing that u cannot fight.
2006-08-03 09:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Model Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time clock in love! If you're not sure that your are, you're probably more in lust right now. 2 months, though, isn't a lot of time. He sounds great, and I think that after a while you will come to the point when you feel deeper emotions with him. Such as love. :) <3
2006-08-03 09:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen everyone falls in love at different rates. I knew my husband was the one from the start of our relationship. He told me he loved me after only a few days and i could tell he meant it. Now we are married for almost four years and been together for 6yrs. and i couldnt imagine being with anyone else. So if your in love tell him and enjoy it and dont let anybody tell you different.
2006-08-03 09:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worry about it. BUT, dont get comfortable with this guys kindness, if you find you dont love him, tell him. However, if you still remain unsure, wait. It can either go one way or the other, you will notice you love him on day, or you will know you dont. Only time could tell..GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-03 09:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur asking then i don't think ur in love with him. I think u should kno ur abt to be smitten or already are smitten at least the 3rd time u meet a guy.
He sounds like a good guy though!
2006-08-03 09:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself sometime if you not sure you love him yet its no big deal take your time enjoy the relationship...life is to short to rush things n make mistakes...the more you get to know him n the longer your together the more you'll undetrstand how you feel...
2006-08-03 09:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by cutiestnowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus 'coz he almost handover his paycheque to you, you think he loves you and you too love him. Do you call this LOVE ?? NO this is not love.
Ok, herez the formula,
The more desperately you need to be in love the more quickly fall into.
Love is what comes from INSIDE, pure, gentl, calm .......
2006-08-03 09:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by amitkrdce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation and the people. I dont think its too soon. Just make sure that you dont marry him so soon, cause something may happen, give it some time.
2006-08-03 09:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by liss843 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋