I'm being paranoid now because of this guy I became his gf last saturday...!
Before him introducing me to his friends as a girlfriend, he had text me, mailed me alot. I texted him back after a day or two, and than return to me in seconds!
Now, I'm not getting the same response. He calls me now...but no rapid reply on the text...and I'm feeling if I had done something wrong...I'm just sending him 2 or 3 lines of text message a day, or once in 2 days. No rapid answer...
Is it normal for your contact frequency to drop after your date becomes your girlfriend?
Do you find it safe now, that you've achieved her heart?
By the way we haven't slept yet, and he values what I don't want now.
2006-08-03 02:24:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The beginning of a relationship is supposed to be the honeymoon phase. If he is already slack, watch out. More to come. He is taking you for granted. Back back and give him 50 feet. See what he does. If he misses you and makes contact, tell him that you gave him space because he wasn't responding to your efforts to maintain contact. Either he will shape up or you can ship him out. Hold on to your goodies. He hasn't earned them by a long shot. I know I am not a guy but I know a thing or two about them, especially their game playing techniques.
2006-08-03 02:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal. In every relationship, that sort of thing always happens, and its a good sign, but not too many people realize that. When the guy stops calling or texting you as much (but mind, still replies to your calls and texts), it means that e's become totally comfortable with you and feels like he doesn't have to impress you anymore. It means that he's really comfortable with you.
But as your boyfriend, he still has the obligation to give you your time of day (but be considerate when you know that he's having a hard time). If he fails to do that (without any reasonable excuse), and is giving other signs of infidelity, then maybe its time to check if he's lost his interest. The best way to deal with doubt is to talk it over with your partner.
2006-08-03 09:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karam got u
u was doing it to him now he got tired of it and is doing it back to you
talk to him and explain to him whats going on
dont let out ur emotions it will make him want to do it more
good luck
2006-08-03 09:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try try n try
2006-08-03 09:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋