is ok not to want to take controle but just try to be equiles? i'm not the MAN type. i don't want to be the one who leads but for both to go along. is that acceptable?
or is it kinda the mans job to lead?
2006-08-03 01:27:57 · 7 answers · asked by This Guy right Here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think all relationships should be equal give and take.
2006-08-03 01:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope its only a pity more guys dont take a lesson outta your book! an equal balance is a relationship is quite important - i hate it when guys try and run the relationship - and likewise when they leave all the decision making up the girls, it gets tedious and boring.
When a couple are on equal terms I think you have the perfect balance - but occassionally do exert your manly side and organise a nice surprise for your lady
2006-08-03 08:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok for both to lead
2006-08-03 08:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Relationships/marriages are partnerships, not master/slave situations. Men are protectors and providers, and they are supposed to make decisions, but with their women's consent."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-03 12:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay. People are used to thinking that men are more dominant. It's okay to have a little change.
2006-08-03 08:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship there must be some respect and givin and takin
and thats the normal thing
2006-08-03 08:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by yasmeen q* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
equal is good, men dont have to lead
2006-08-03 08:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋