I like him hes ALOT older than me but hes so funny and sexy n makes me laugh..What do i do..
2006-08-03 01:26:09 · 21 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must not love your boyfriend as much as you say or think because if you did there's no way you would have let this other man in dear get your self together
2006-08-03 01:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Is it the attraction of a older person? What is your current relationship like your boyfriend? Are you serious about your boy friend. If you love your boyfriend dearly, that I suggest that you really look at yourself and what you are looking for in this relationship. If this older person is treating you better, it could be just that he is more experienced and it would be unfair to compare him with someone younger.
You have to compare an orange with an orange and not with an apple.
2006-08-03 01:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by aew2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally up to you but, which relationship do you value the most??? Weigh your pros and cons. You've only known this new guy 1 month??? Has he asked you out??? You're not placing any value on the relationship that you have with your boyfriend, how would you feel if the situation were reversed and some little cutie came into your boyfriends life and he was ready to throw your relationship away??? Think about it!!!
2006-08-03 01:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's infatuation.
"don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because they'll leave you for someone they love."
If you're starting to really fall for this new guy, please..don't put your boyfriend through the hell of cheating. Tell him the truth & set him free.
but if you think it's just nothing more than a crush, then start to get over it.
Do what you feel is best for you & your boyfriend. Don't be selfish & keep him around as backup just incase the new guy doesn't work.
2006-08-03 01:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how old is he? how dearly do you love your boyfriend? sounds to me like you maybe you and your boyfriend are in a relationship rut & you need something to spice it up with the boyfriend. Will you be able to live with yourself if you go after this older man and your boyfriend finds out? Better think this one over
2006-08-03 01:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. how much older. how do you love your boyfriend dearly. What's that? Does this older guy like you? Think about what it is you want before you do anything drastic. You don't say how long have you been wiath your boyfriend..........
2006-08-03 01:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by PAMELA f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right I'll ask you this:
Would you like to really, really hurt your boyfriend?
Would you like to break his heart?
Could you take a red hot poker and torture your boyfriend?
Would you like like to see your boyfriend cry because he has been hurt by you?
If the answers are NO!!!
Then DO NOT get involved with this other guy.
If you can answer YES to any of these then you don't love your boyfriend as much as you think.
2006-08-03 01:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really really loved your guy you wouldn't even think of someone not at all, cause then your bf would be the only on. i say your bf is good and all and you do love but not enough you must decide if you choose the other guy there are consequensis.
good luck
2006-08-03 01:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with ur boyfriend that u have now..Cause i have a boyfriend and I luv him alot and i will never replace him wit another guy.
2006-08-03 01:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are about to have an affair,I hope your boyfriend takes you back after you decided to wander around.
Good luck !
2006-08-03 01:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋