Once in a while I would wake up in middle of the night to find my girlfriend masturbating. I usually rub her back or hold her as she do it, once she's done, she goes back to sleep.
I knows there's nothing wrong with our sex life since we do it pretty often. She will wakes me up if she wants some in middle of the night. I'm awares that even person who have a spouse still masturbates once in a while. So I assume sometime she got in the mood to do it or help her fall asleep.
I would like to knows if this is normal or is something wrong?
2006-08-03 01:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-03 01:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by jhnedrmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this borders on a possible addiction/abuse.
Is it normal...actually I would ask, is it healthy?
You can find many cases of childhood abuse victims turn into Sex Addicts. The pleasure of Sex is a powerful way of hiding and masking pains of unmet needs.
This is obviously a subject that is difficult to approach and is a very sensitive subject. First the reality is that many victims blockout the memories of abuse and are frequently unaware that the abust even occured.
If you are truly concerned, then I would urge you to research Abuse and specifically Sexual Abuse. Then do some study on Sexual Addiction. See if the two of you exhibit characteristics and symptoms of either or both.
If so, seek some professional assistance. I would recommend Christian Counseling. Not out of a desire to evangalize, but simply because a Christian Counselor can have an insight to the basis of what they believe. Secular counselors, while very gifted sometimes tread into strange places that may or may not be healthy for you and your girlfriend.
If I'm wrong, then there was no harm in researching...if i'm correct, then you will both experience recovery from some childhood wounds and move on to leading a healthy life.
2006-08-03 01:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i think is wrong with that is the fact maybe you could help her out. if you are awake and shes awake, why not? ask her if you can rub her or make love to her right then and there
2006-08-03 01:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its natural- dont worry. I dont think she intends you to feel bad, else she wouldn be doin it when you're around. Why dont u try the same too? go by her reactions and let the talks be based on the whole experience
2006-08-03 01:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by maybelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it's normal. But that doesn't mean you can't help her out if you happen to wake up while she is doing it.
2006-08-03 01:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she became tired from the sex that ur giving her
u have to do some changes
otherways ull see her beside other man
sorry to tell u that but thats my opinion
2006-08-03 01:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by supremeiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal, you're a lucky dog.
2006-08-03 01:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal, she probably doesn't want to wake you every time she gets horny.
2006-08-03 01:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, don't worry about it. At least she is still in bed with not and not somewhere else!!!!!
2006-08-03 01:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal unless your not doing bad things.!?
2006-08-03 01:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by cute_si_jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋