they don't listen to me always. they neglect me they give more importance tomy brother. they don't belive in me.
2006-08-03 00:57:38 · 10 answers · asked by minu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You've got to be strong. You've got to do what you can for yourself and seek support from other friends and family around you. Don't fall into a trap of seeking love and attention in an unhealthy way. Be proud of how you live your life and in the long run you will see how you were able to survive and move on in your life. Hang in there. Be good to yourself.
2006-08-03 01:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk 2 them or ask them about their interests discuss them about weather and get good grades, b nice 2 ur bro n dont get envy over little things and try 2 talk useful so that u an get theur full attention n when the y start listening 2 u take them back with the time ask them why they did not gave u he equal importance n yeah one thing more try 2 remember ur mistakes means what have done wrong and if Yes than just apologise GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-03 08:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents do love you, cos they shout at you means nothing. Its better for them to yell at you than belt you. You prob feel unloved a lot of us do when youner child in family, talk to them or talk to a nother family member they can explain to your parents how you feel if you cant. Just let them know youlove them an appreciate every thinmg they have done for you. There must be a reason they dont believe you, all you have to do is be honest with yourself and them they will trust you again,
2006-08-03 08:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Minu...I am sure your folks love you. You may not realize it, but they do. Sometimes adults get stressed out and don't realize what they are saying to you.
Is your brother younger than you? He probably needs a bit more attention than you that does NOT mean he is more important.
Try talking to you one of your parents at a calm moment. Don't try to do this when you are getting yelled at, or your mom is busy doing many things. Tell her how you feel...give her a big hug, tell her you love her...see how that works.
Also, is there an adult that you can talk to about this? Maybe one of your grandparents...an aunt, an uncle and older cousin? You should explain your feelings to them. Maybe they can then help you speak to your parents.
You really need to talk to someone about this. I am sure things will work out just fine.
Good luck.
2006-08-03 08:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be confused and cannot understand them. Do not take it in negative manner. They do love u and care for u that is why they see that u do not take any wrong step and so they just advice u for your own good. just take it in positive manner and do not take any hasty decision which would hurt them or which might do no good in your near future. I wish you all the best and keep your parents happy rather than thinking that they do not love u.
2006-08-03 08:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Shilpa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, believe me, they love you, dont think for a second they dont, you are very important, you are very special, I've been through this, and I was wrong, my parents love me, your brother is no more important than you are, it's just your young age that is making you think that.. you are important.. sweetie, just hang in there.. ;-)
2006-08-03 08:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Squishygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents love you I'm sure of that...
maybe you just can't see it because you are blinded by your anger...
try to understand them too, and try to view the situation the way your parents do...
I'm sure they love you more than you know...
but if I'm wrong... I'm sure there's someone who loves you no matter what...
Jesus loves you more than you can ever imagine...
He loves you unconditionally...
He accepts you for who you are...
at least you know someone who honestly love you...
2006-08-03 08:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they luv u they just dont make it seem that way.u have to sit them down and tell them how u feel.if they say the doent have time for it scream wut ur feelin.They need to no how much u need them.If it doesnt go through them tell someone u really trust and that can comfort u
2006-08-03 08:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by dj s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean.And they won't let you explain either. Focus on your friends!!! School is starting!!! woohoo
2006-08-03 10:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cottonswab!!!:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay strong, you'll be OK
2006-08-03 08:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋