Why r guys so puzzling???...?

Question

Why is it so that guys have fun with the most flirty and bad kind of girls; but when it comes to settling down & getting married they all look for a good homely girl,who could cook food and take care of their children?? Why r u guys so bizzare??

Answer 1

Guys know what they want.

If it is fun then as you said the most flirty and bad kind of girls are the most fun.

But when its marriage material, you don't want one who is flirty and going partying all week. You want one that is as you said homely, can cook and loving to children. And also would you trust a flirty girl to be yr wife?

But honestly I think it is the same for girls too right. If you want to have fun, you look for bad boys. But if you want to settle down you find one who can take care of you and family, not the bad boys.

Answer 2

It's not at all puzzling, Rebecca.
U just see that when the boys are in the teens they don't understand what to choose. When all the people are wandering with flirty and bad kind of girls, so just to be a part of the crowd they follow what the other people are doing. But when their parents start asking them about settling down and marriage (At that time they become a little mature) they think that those kind of gurls aren't okay for being their life partners u see. So they then go and look for a good homely girl so that they could cook food and take care of their children, which are the perfect for being one's life partners. We r not bizzare at all.
And u know that when ever (boy or a gurl) is in his/her teens, he/she would like to have as much as fun in their teens cause it is only the time to do so.

Answer 3

Well, honestly, wouldn't you do the same? Would you look for a "bad boy" to have some fun in your life and then marry him? Or would you rather have some fun with a bad boy and then marry a loving, caring and responsible man?

Answer 4

guys would catergorize women into two types,the weddable,and the beddable.but guys shouldnt let women do all the cooking you know,they have a responsibility too in taking care of a children,thats what makes a good father.men like these are hard to find I tell ya

Answer 5

think about it why do ladies like the bad boy? and when to settle down to the guy that takes care of her.

Answer 6

Is it our fault if we wanna have fun till we're ready to hear you nag at us for the rest of your life? We don't even know u and u are nagging at us. If you haven't picked up the point by now, i don't know what to tell ya. And by the way men r very simple, women are like their underwear: nice in the morning, crappy bu night fall. and some even don't have to reach night fall.

Answer 7

I used to prefer bad girls until i discovered they have no idea about 'honesty', 'respect', 'love' or 'loyalty'.

I'm now looking for a nice girl who isn't vegetarian, works out but isn't a fanatic and likes the taste of sperm.

Answer 8

It's about finally 'growing up'...they quit fantasizing and change their focus in life.

When guys are younger, their egos are measured by how many and which chick they bed. When guys get older, their egos are measured by their social standings.

And in order to achieve a firm social standing, they need to build their careers...that's why they need to give up on chasing hot chicks and channel their energy towards establishing a career. To achieve this social standing, they need a nice decent girl whom they can rely on while they pursue their careers. MEN ARE SELF-INDULGENT EITHER WAYS!!!!

Answer 9

When it comes to getting laid, guys just want a freak.

When it comes to a soulmate, guys want a nice girl who is a freak in bed.

Answer 10

I don't think it's fair! I think that the good homely girl should keep her standards high too! These guys are tainted! They are used goods! Most of these guys will cheat on the homely wives because they will get bored and I don't think that it's fair! Women, please get your standards up!!!!