Although she ocasionaly stuters, shes beautiful, but i cant find the courage to even start a conversation! Sometimes though she laughs at my jokes, but what im afraid of that she will reject me if I ask her out, cause this other guy tried, but failed. What i also fear is if she says yes, her friends will brainwash her to breakup with me! Can someone help me to at least start a conversation? PLEASE!!!!!
2006-08-02 23:59:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well seeing as I am a blunt person I would just forget about being scared and just go up and do it because whether you wait till now or later her answer will probably be the same and think if you never do ask her out you will always wonder "what if"? You can start out by say hello and asking her how she is doing....then ask her what her fav color, band and etc etc is. Find your common interests and keep displaying your likeness for her without actually telling her (if you are going to go about it this way) and see if she doesn't pick up the hint then keep talking with her until you feel comfortable telling her.
2006-08-03 00:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think anything, honey. Get some exercise, as much for the mind, and get some books on interpersonal skills. And I'll tell you something- there is nothing more beautiful than an ordinary woman who is in love with her husband. Honestly, her lips plump up and there's a whole load of things that go on which makes her look wonderful. Honestly, my wife is just an ordinary girl- probably like you- and I truly find her more attractive than any other woman. It's the girl being in love with us that we find lovely. I can't put into words, but just look into your husbands eyes, if you want a husband, and you'll understand what I'm talking about. Look at the pleasure in his eyes. Or the sheer lust in his eyes; much the same.
2016-03-26 21:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you are a teenager. If you are I suggest a double date or a group date with a couple of friends who you both are comfortable around. While out on this date, pay a little more attention to her needs than anyone else. See how she responds to you. If you get positive vibes from her, then be brave and ask her out. She will probably say yes. If she says no, then wait a few months and try again.
P.S. My husband had to aks me out three times before I ever accepted and we wete not young, and know we are wonderful togther.
Object of this Lesson: NEVER GIVE UP!!! If you have feelings for her.
2006-08-03 00:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of a guy who finally plucked up the courage to ask a girl out. He liked her for a long time because he found her really nice and pretty. She turned him down and cooked up really lame excuses like ' Our age gap's too wide...' or 'I already like someone else...' blah blah blah.
This guy that I am referring to is freaking HOT....real hot!! He's the kind you'd find in Calvin Klein underwear adverts. The point I am trying to raise is, even gorgeous hunks face rejections. If you ever pluck up the courage to ask your girl out and she says NO, it's nothing to do with the weight issue that you have right now.
It's just life...some people aren't compatible while some people are like two peas in a pod. Face up to life realistically but don't let your inadequacy hinder your aspirations in life. GO ASK HER OUT!
2006-08-03 00:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she enjoys ur jokes, that means u make her laugh, just go ahead and take the chance, ask her out, u never can tell she migh just be waiting for u to do that, and if she doesn't want u then know u tried, adapt and move on with life. I know its hard to take no for an answer. For ur weight do something about it if u'r not confortable.
2006-08-03 00:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it dude! Let it flow. If she digs ya, then guess what? It'll happen for ya. When I was a weee lad such as yourself, I too was a bit shy and overweight, but guess what junior? I slapped that monkey in quite a few watering holes in my day. I guess it really is all about the attitude.
2006-08-03 00:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know he as friends first so she won't be pulled down with manipulation from friends.
Then, grow some balls and ask her out mate. Goodluck! Sit next to her whenever you can and let her catch you looking at her everynow and then (not all the time though cos it'll freak her out mate!)
2006-08-03 00:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start by dealing with your weight problem, then as that starts to be dealt with, your confidence will start to increase...
If, however, you don't want to address that issue, just take a deep breath and ask her out... You got the chance of several answers, YES NO MAYBE... Take a chance...
2006-08-03 00:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude....firstly if you wanna be freinds for physical outlook then it is LUST not love, so if your being overweight has problem with her liking you, trust me she is not worth it.
She has to like you for the person who you are and not what you look like. So be yourself, gain confidence and approach.
BUT dude...being overweight is not good for your health and create problems at a later stage in life..so SHAPE UP....
2006-08-03 00:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Vinash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think to far dude...i'm overweight too..and i'm a girl..but trust me...overweight guys lose weight easier and faster than girls...so start now...but i have the feeling that maybe she rejected those guys because she likes you..i don't know...but why don't you just try...don't wait until it's too late...
2006-08-03 00:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bike Biker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋