my friends cuts her wrist I want to tell someone but I scared that she will never talk to me again and I'm worred things will just get worse if I tell an adult.she is 13 and I'm 14.I just don't know what to do anymore I've tryed talking to her. A friend of mind she doesn't know died after being really depressed she committed suicide and it was not that long ago. I don't what this to happen to her.
2006-08-02 23:54:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
From personal experience I am telling you that you need to tell someone. Maybe not her parents if you feel that will make things worse, but someone needs to know so they can help her. When school starts maybe tell the counselor as an anonymous friend.
2006-08-03 00:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by fadingn2004 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
#1 you better tell an adult where they can get her some help. #2 suicide is just because you can't see a way out of a bad situation.#3 been there tried that but i was not very good at it. or i wouldn't be having this conversation. #4 try talking to your friend,see what is bothering her so much. Some times they just need to know you are listening to them.Be careful when teenagers are around people who commit suicide it tends to run in groups. Alot of people get depressed about it and more commit suicide. It can be a very bad thing. I once heard of 30 teens doing that. Please don't be one of them.
2006-08-03 07:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be the stronger person and realize that what your friend is doing is hurting them self. A true friend would tell a trusted adult (parent, coach, teacher, relative) and get your friend the help they need. Self-mutilation is not something to be taken lightly. You need to do the right thing before it gets out of hand. I know that it may be scary for you to tell someone about your friend, but think of it this way. If you don't tell anyone and something bad happens, how would you feel? Your friend might be angry at first for you telling someone, but believe me, when they get the help that they need, they will thank you. You need to be there and support your friend through these rough times. Good luck, and do the right thing, even though it may not be easiest for you.
2006-08-03 07:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Meredith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help your friend see a doctor, tell somebody, your friend's parents or someone you know will help and care. Chances are you will never-ever get talk to your friend when your friend's situation continues.
Suidicial intention/act should never be taken lightly.
Ask help of some older people.
2006-08-03 07:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god your girls are SO young. this is a tough situation to be dealing with. i'm 23 and a cutter. i would hate it if someone i had told in confidence to go behind my back and talk about my problem w/someone else. but you girls are very young and it is very kind of you to be so concerned about your friend. maybe let her know how concerned you are and that you feel you need to help her get help by telling an adult. i think i would appreciate that instead of not knowing that you'd be telling an adult. i bet she will either freak out or maybe be relieved by receiving some help. i wish you both well.
2006-08-03 08:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know the feeling but you got to keep trying no matter what.
my friend was just soo depressed that she started doing that two days ago and right know i'm on thin ice trying to show her that suicide isn't the best answer shes thinking about it know what would happen if she did cut her wrist try what i did if you think it might work:
"who the hell is gonna help me reek havock if your gone *smile* but really this is stupid this is't helping you and it sure as hell is no walk in the park for me to see you do this to yourself, you gotta stop this BS"*shake em then stare at them for a while
gud lik wid yur friend
2006-08-03 07:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand how you must feel. If you care about her you have to think about her well being before you worry about if she won't ever talk to you again. I't called being a true friend. Putting their needs before your own! Good luck man. Hang in there!
2006-08-03 07:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, go and tell your GP...he will be able to contact the relevant health care professionals who will be able to take care of your friend. All of this will be completely anonymous. I promise you that it is highly unlikely that she will stop talking to you - it's more likely that once she starts recieving treatment, she will need you even more. Good luck to you both - take care of yourself.
2006-08-03 08:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by ofamarigold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out the problem .
then make her realise how valuable her life is to everyone who loves her . tell her she is a part of many lives & that she 'd be darkening thier future with her foolishness .
give her every reason to live that you have , show her the beauty of this world. plz remember you have to do loads of hardwork for that.
if all this doesnt works then lastly tell her perents , they 'll take her to psychologist , she needs him.
2006-08-03 07:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by aa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ashley k, she needs help, she might be angry with you, but
at least she will be there in life to be angry at. teenagers always believe that everythings hopeless and they dont seem to be able to have the strength that adults do to pull themselves through bad times, each persons problem is individual to them and should be treated individually, shes too young too young to be left alone and youre too young to be in this position, but i realise youre trying to be a friend, and youre doing a good job,but she does need help,talk to someone you can trust, try to convince her to see them as well with you, so that your not sneaking behind her back....take care......elektra
2006-08-03 07:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by ......,,,,,.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋