If you had to hear 24 hours a day how much you have screwed things up in your relationship. I mean if you truely heard this everytime you looked at someone you have loved and tried to be with as a couple. You have said you're sorry over and over again but to no prevail. The screaming and yelling never stops.
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2006-08-02 23:47:58 · 36 answers · asked by Feathers-n-Lace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then it is time to leave and don't look back. If you enjoy torture, then stay. If you really want a chance to be happy, leave and start over with someone or somewhere else. Good luck.
2006-08-02 23:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS in a relationship like that in the past. It's not a good feeling. I'm sorry to hear that YOU are going through what I did, but if it has been going on for a long time now, then know that it won't stop without getting personal help with the TWO of you. If he can't see that then darlin' you need to get out now.(kids or not) It can lead to a more physical relationship. That no one needs.You deserve better than that. Good luck. If you have any other questions you want to ask personally YOU can e-mail me.
2006-08-02 23:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either leave, as I wouldn't be able to put up with 24 hour a day moaning, or answer back, point out that maybe your partner should share some responsibility in how bad the relationship is. It can't be all your fault just because he says so.
2006-08-02 23:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have went through that, and am continueing to do so. I am out of the relationship yet she continues to call and do those exact same things to me. My relationship actually ended years ago, but I stayed for HER kids. Now I have my own with her and I am so sorry I have to spend the rest of my life "connected to her" in some way.
But for fairness to Her kids and to mine as well, I had to end it. I was raised in a sit. like that and I refuse to put my child into the same loop I was brought up in.
My advise is that since that person is so childish and not able to take responsibility for their actions Leave NOW before anything happens to make you regret your decision to stay any longer. You have said sorry too many times. They will not listen and DO NOT want to listen. In their mind the relationship is over. There is no love left for you.
2006-08-03 01:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Maxwell Smart(ypants) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so Ann Landers-ish, but it here it is: It seems as if you might have made a couple mistakes that your partner really resents and can't get over. The guilt trip you are getting comes from your partner's need to make you feel as miserable as he/she feels, and that means there is still some love left, but the hurt is overwhelming, and the relationship will not heal itself, no matter how much love you have or how much time passes. If you love your partner, then you need to urge him/her to go to counseling with you. If your partner refuses, then you need to go by yourself. Sometimes it takes a professional to stop the hurting so you both can get on with your lives--either together or apart.
2006-08-03 00:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you wont be forgiving for what you done so i think this is coming to an end or unless you want to hear this for the rest of your life you see people forgive but some never forget this isn't a healthy relationship so move on ,it will take time but its something you might have to do
2006-08-02 23:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not quite enough info to go on, but from the sound of it seems like infedelity.
Let them vent, it's the least you can do. If you are sorry then you have to allow them the time to overcome their pain.
Talk with them and let them know that you are sorry and you need them as much as they need you right now. Them dealing with the broken trust and you dealing with the aggrevation of causing it. It's hard enough without the added pressure of guilt being thrown back at you.
It's like a short fused time bomb.
2006-08-03 00:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take that kind of abuse..if you screwed up and said you were sorry and truly meant it the other person has to decide wether to be with you or not if that other person is only there to make you feel like crap all the time...leave dont put up with it.Good luck
2006-08-03 00:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to give up! really believe it. There is no forgiveness in some people and it sounds like you are lumbered with one of them. Probably the reason you so called screwed up in the first place! Good luck and move on, you really deserve better.
2006-08-02 23:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by karen464916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to cope with it, I'd probably rebel against my partner and start doing my own thing in my own world. If they cannot accept my apology then there is no way the relationship can possibly move and grow from there. You might want to sit your partner down and explain to them that you cannot continue to see them until they stop throwing your past into your face because you cannot deal with it anymore.
2006-08-02 23:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_lesbiian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋