it seems like thery're an endangered species!
2006-08-02 23:45:34 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres not many i give u that.
but we are out there. in time u will find one hun ok.
goodluck
xxx
2006-08-02 23:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 3 · 19⤊ 6⤋
Here some ideas for you sis. I think you could find interesting men in 1/ charity fund raising groups related to youth and children. 2/ University Libraries! Especially if you go to Computer, commerce, engineering sections, and dress sexy-smart and smile at them. 3/ Trekking clubs, wall climbing clubs, and other clubs with sports that are not men-oriented or too competitive but sports in which people want to have fun and do some exercise. 4/ Alternative cinema groups (book groups are mostly formed by women, so avoid then!). 5/ Jazz Clubs. These are places to meet interesting men. To find good men you have to remember that a good man can be found anywhere: next door's neighbour, bus stop, wherever a true good man moves around, so everywhere. It is just a matter of luck. You'll end finding one, believe me!
I agree partially with what says the previous answerer. I have many male friends, very good persons, but I'm not sexually attracted to them; they are like brothers to me. I would like to be attracted to them, but I'm not. Sometimes we women have this problem, that we are more attracted to the bad guys tha to the good ones. We have to learn to differentiate because a good man for our life and a good male to show around!
2006-08-03 00:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see things are there are good men out there but you know the old saying Good people finish last!!!! I'm a good man!!! I have a lot of girl friends. But the girls are only friends. I see them picking the wrong guy because they are exciting at the time. They don't look right under their own noses at the guy that has been there for them through all their pain of being with the wrong guy. Try looking right out the front door to see the one guy that's always been there for you. He might be the good guy that you've been looking for!!!!!!!! Good Luck
2006-08-02 23:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by numbr1slotman1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look!! The best thing to do is do not meet them in a night club because most of us will tell you what you want to hear. Go somewhere where there is no scum like a bar where there is descent people and go with friends. Or you could join a gym you would enjoy that and at least you would have something to look at.
2006-08-02 23:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by mwetherell1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i believe that you don't need a man or other partner to define yourself ( no i am not suggesting toys) .
look around at couples who are not happy . enjoy your freedom, flirt around have some safe fun if you want to. when you are not actively looking it will appear for you.the same as a woman battling to fall pregnant , may be so obsessed that she doesn't fall pregnant, but once she gives up and stops obsessing it happens.
i am happily married but i often meet young or otherwise men , who i can see are great potential boyfriends or friends for others . because i am not looking for them , i can see their genuineness shine through.
if the places you have tried to meet decent guys are not producing the goods,(sorry boys) , then discover new interests . having said that i did meet my husband at a pub, which is where even decent young men hang out.
console yourself , that you are able to spot the losers(sorry again ), which means that when a deluxe model arrives you will recognize him.
2006-08-03 00:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of what I call Gods revenge. "he's thirty something, up to the minute fashion aware, spends £50 on getting his hair cut, comfortably good looking, can cook, chat about girlie stuff and cry with you - only problem is his boyfriend would scratch your eyes out if you dared to"
ha ha ha ha ha. Nice guys finish last
But at least they get to finish nice guys - right?
2006-08-02 23:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the only real good ones are extinct, Sorry men. There are good men out there you just have to look, depends on what your looking for, join a club, church organisation.
2006-08-02 23:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am a good man and it's hard for me to find a good women feel free to email or IM me.
2006-08-02 23:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by jdhmusic3029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wall-Mart
2006-08-02 23:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man who have the patientions, Simplcity & specialy brave , i can find him in my college by absorving the guy's attitude.
2006-08-02 23:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife thinks I am a good man. She never complains. There are some out there.
2006-08-02 23:52:40 · answer #11 · answered by Lt Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋