what does it mean when someone says ' I want to abuse you' since a guy said this who I like, and I find men hard to figure out. Please help!!!!
2006-08-02 23:38:41 · 19 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there's not a lot of context on your question.
If you were talking about him getting your help or something relative to that or if you were talking about something sexual you'd get totally different interpretations on what he meant.
It could mean that he's going to get all the information or knowledge he can from you.
Go based on your gut instincts and what you know about him. Don't take one phrase or one moment in time and judge him totally by that one comment. But if he's a jerk or treats women like they are worthless ... then I'd say assume the worst.
2006-08-03 09:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you like him so it doesn't sound like you were threatened, so I presume he meant it sexually?
I suppose it means he would like to engage with you sexually and promote some kind of agressive atmosphere. Perhaps the act might be more physical and less gentle. It's not going to work unless you are up for that kind of engagement too, I mean if he is all hard and fast or whatever, and you are looking for the soft and sensual approach.
He needs to confirm with you that you could share this type of thing and both get a kick from it or it could be an anti-climax - literally.
Just my interpretation.
2006-08-03 06:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mumrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably have to be there to see how he said it...it's pretty vague to just read it and figure out exactly what he was thinking when he said it. But in any case, 'abuse' is not at all a romantic word and is a bit disturbing if he used that phrase to come onto you. I think with that remark he will not be respectful to you and will only want to get in your pants and move on.
2006-08-03 07:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to guess, based upon the little information you have given, that he most likely has some sex fetishes/kinks. I don't think most males who are actual abusers tend to come right out and say it... they are a little more subtle than that. They usually quietly gain control of a woman and eventually start the abuse with no warning. Still, unless you are into kinky sex yourself, I'd be careful.
2006-08-03 06:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Physh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fragility of friendships that were supossedly unbreakable is just another hard slap of reality. The only constant is this world is change. (Some) good things wun last, just like how 50% sales at Mango wun last. =)
but perhaps its the treasured memories of the past and hopeful anticipation for the future which keeps us going on this seemingly never ending road of life..
2006-08-03 06:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he wants to have sex with you, he just got the wording wrong that's all
2014-10-27 17:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out before he decides to follow through on the threat
2006-08-03 06:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by machinerytech2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, And this is what you like?
This guy is a loser and full of himself. You don't want to be his punching bag dear, YOU are worth way more and a way better guy, Throw this one into the garbage can as he stinks! lol
Good Luck
Mikey
2006-08-03 06:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by towitout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He conveyed his strong chemistry for you. He might have been suppressing this strong feelinf, and conveyed this urge to you. The language reveals the potential of his urge. Its strong
2006-08-03 06:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he means sexually. Maybe he wants to get a little rough with you
2006-08-03 06:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋