4mth relationship now he says he loves being with me and likes me loads BUT he doesnt want serious relationship or the hassle that comes with it. Ive never got heavy on him im sooo easy going propbably too easy going.
We finished a few weeks ago and I was trying to get over him, then last Friday he saw me out and said he had made a mastake finishing it, I slept with him as he was soooo apologetic and said he couldnt get over me then all weekend he was phoning and texting me saying he missed me. He took me out all day Sunday for a romantic drive, drink, dinner and to a museam. I sent him a text last night asking if that was for old times sake and thats how he replied.
I like him loads but should I just move on, he doesnt know what he wants and I cant be someones booty call.
2006-08-02 23:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You last line answers your own question. Just move the I in front of the should.
2006-08-02 23:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-08-03 06:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you move on.If you really know what you want and he's sometimey, pursuing this relationship would be accepting his terms. It would be okay for a little while but then you'll get frustrated, your going to want some type of commitment. In the end you won't be able to take it out on him because you knew that he wasn't ready to commit you still decided to pursue it thinking it would change but you can't make him change. If he's a nice guy and you like hanging out with him but your gut feeling tells you it's not going to work GET OUT, be friends because you'll only get more attached and it will get harder to let him go.
2006-08-03 07:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by LovetoLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 mths is not along tome ,this guy doesn't like commitment and is playing you, stop giving him what he wants when he whats it. Let him do the running on your terms. Have fun your only young once. show him he is not the centre of your life no matter how hard it is for you. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-08-03 06:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you should do is Evey time he calls or texts you should tell him sorry busy got a date call you later, then if he really does want e relationship with you he will be persistent with his calls and texts then you can take him back on your terms
2006-08-03 06:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by miss tigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.. I had a b/f like that, got so fed up with his lack of committment went on a date with someone else.. now happily living with that someone else three years later!
2006-08-03 06:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by lisaandmax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw him back in the gutter, if he was that great, he would off been an **** in the first place, and he would have treated you properly in the first place, go find yourself a man who knows how to treat a woman with respect and not take the mick until its too late!!!
2006-08-03 06:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like what he said is what he is thinking so time to forget, tho its tough and take a dating break for awhile.
2006-08-03 06:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Marion C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on get over him find someone who will appreciate you more.
2006-08-03 06:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mon is still along with my Dad
2006-08-03 06:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by kimarley r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋