friends there is a huge problem i like a girl who is my friend's girl friend nd due to my efforts they are spending a good time together.yesterday i realise that i like her too..actually the truth is that the also likes me but just becoz of me she get engage with my friend.At that time i feel that friendship is more important than girls.but now i feel jealous nd its such a pain for me .pls help me........pls pls pls
is it ok if i tell all this to girl nd my friend
but i don't want to hurt my friend feeling......
is it love????
pls friends i need some useful suggestion .
pls pls pls
2006-08-02 23:04:51 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only problem is that you think you're in love with your best friend's fiancee.
You answered it though: you're jealous. You want to have what he does even though you aren't emotionally ready for that connection.
Don't tell your friend or his fiancee about these feelings. It could only complicate things more, especially your friendship.
If you have to ask whether or not it's love, chances are it's not.
2006-08-02 23:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly? I think it's jealousy.. You are the one who hooked them up together and now your having this problem saying you love the girl.. I don't think it's love.. If you lvoe the girl, her BF should be you and not your friend.. Besides, they are engaged.. No sense in destrying a good relationship just because you are jealous..
Take my advice.. I can't tell you to be happy for them because I know you can't.. But what I am telling you now is leave your friend and his GF be and move on.. This is what you wanted in teh first place.. Don't be too selfish and take away your friend's happiness which YOU gave in the beginning..
2006-08-03 06:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard situation.
If you really like her, then tell her your feelings. Its much better than just holding your feelings and watching your friend and your lover be happily together. Instead of saying "I love you, I want you, please forgive him and come to me!" say something more proper...like "I know you are in a relationship with someone, but I just want to let you know that I also have feelings for you. I'm not trying to ruin your relationship, I just dont want to hold my feelings. If you break up with him by any chance, would you go out with me? I will try my best to make you happy" SOmething like that.
Now about your friend...
Maybe just not tell your friend about your feelings. If you're going to say your feelings to the girl, also mention to not tell HIM because you dont want to hurt his feelings.
Sorry if it doesnt work..good lucK!
2006-08-03 06:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give up a friendship for a girl. I personally think that is very wrong if you express your feeling at this moment, it makes everyone very uncomfortable... If that girl doesnt loves her bf, she wont engage to him. Your action could make you lose your friend and probably the friendship between you and that girl also. Think carefully before you make any decision.
2006-08-03 06:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dogs Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wanted you, she would leave her bf for you.
She may like you, but deep down she knows that shes happy where she is.
If you do reviel all, you may end up losing both of them. but on the other hand, you might need to chat to her and ask her straight if she likes you because if that is the case, she doesnt deserve your friend and he doesnt deserve to be walked over xx
2006-08-03 06:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by _yeah_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend. Do your own thing, but be there when she needs you. She will notice u soon enough. Be interesting too. U know, just hang in there.... if she really likes u, she will realize it soon, just stay put and be a good friend to her.
2006-08-03 06:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still call them your friend , please let them have their time , and seek their help to find another girl for you , do not break three hearts by telling them your latest inner feelings .Accept the cruel truth and change your mind & feelings .
2006-08-03 06:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you as well?if both of ou do not wish to hurt the friend.then just break it to him really slowly.coz if she marries the guy and dont love him then thats unfair for him.
2006-08-03 06:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bit late. stay away. if engagement breaks for other reasons, u might have a second chance.
2006-08-03 06:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by love t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone. If one day they break up then you can make your try. Don't interfere you could ruin every ones life and lose her also.
2006-08-03 06:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋