See, I like this guy who is a good friend of mine. I've known him for 3 years. I've helped him find girls for him to date but in the process, I ended up having feelings for him. He told me that he had felt something for me too and we shared a few kisses and that was it. I like him alot but I still think that he does have fellings for me but does not want to be committed. Where did I go wrong? What do I do? Help!!!
2006-08-02 22:46:01 · 14 answers · asked by bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have broken the first rule of the Friendship Bi-Laws.
1) Don't date friends!
Plus you may know too much, you know girls he's dated, and general conversations about other women. Not a good start for jumping in a relationship.
The line has been crossed, proceed at your own risk but don't look for a honest commitment, it just won't happen.
(If he had strong feeling for you, he would not have let "you" set him up with anybody).
2006-08-02 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure the guy knows how you feel coz he might be scared that you dont want be in a relationship with him. He may want something more but may be a little hesitant at the moment becuase he doesnt want to ruin your friendship so the best thing to do is to talk to him. That's always the key, just communicate with him and see how things go. But im sure when he comes to his senses he will realise how great u are and will want to be with you. So dont worry too much, just talk to him and be yourself. He's liked you as a friend up until now so i think things will go great for you guys
2006-08-02 22:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by jay_086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell ya, but you can't force a guy to settle down. If you are ready for a commitment and he is not, then you need to move on and find someone who is willing to commit to treating you like a lady.
2006-08-02 22:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in comes to guys a commitment it a big step for them,they run scared i dont know what their big deal is.
2006-08-02 22:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to speculate. Why dont you and him talk about it? Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Just be prepared with his answers:)
2006-08-02 22:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know him since 3years i think its a good period to know the other will and ((now)) i think u can do a relationship with him with a high self confidence.
2006-08-02 22:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been friends for too long. he can't see you like a potential girlfriend. sorry, he has deep feelings for you...as a good friend.
2006-08-02 22:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an idiot and will always be one , my dear. You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make him drink.
2006-08-02 22:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly chicks, it's hard to stay in love with them...I can't apologise for the truth..
If you are cute, he will come back
2006-08-03 00:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ichi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just trying to not hurt you feelings.
2006-08-02 22:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋