2006-08-02 22:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 50 yo
2006-08-02 22:36:28 · update #1
Younger guys are all the same and just want sex, if anything they wouldn't be thinking of anything serious, its always the case just that they are not mature enough for that stuff yet so you should just let them be...although there are some guys who do mature a little faster than most others...
2006-08-02 22:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by jay_086 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you expect flowers and a phonecall, this is the casual sex century, i know its been going on since time began but technology makes it easier for people to screw and move to the next. its the same regardless of hetro or gay. if your telling them after the deed is done that you want to be friends they're hardly going to wait around wasting time on friendship.
2006-08-03 05:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. If you are looking in bars etc then yeh I guess that is what they are looking for.
Try placing an ad in the paper, specifically putting you want friendship first, and want to take things slowly.
2006-08-03 05:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weren't you the same way when you were younger? Didn't your hormones drive you crazy?
Look at that hot guy over there, and there too, oh and that one. Don't deny you were like that.
You've been there, done that. And now you want to settle down.
2006-08-03 05:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I can remember from my own experience, in casual encounters it's usually the dick calling the shots, not the heart. And no one wants to be pressurised into friendship. It'll happen in its own good time if you behave nicely, and choose who you offer friendship to so that you don't waste his time and yours.
2006-08-03 05:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dramafreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what you find particularly sexy in men , then try to avoid that type of men. And force yourself to look at their minds before their bodies.
2006-08-03 06:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the same reason that hetrosexual people just go out for one night stands, make yourself clearer
2006-08-03 06:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i make frndship wid anyone then i'll be wid them forever.So will u be my frnd?
2006-08-03 05:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what gay relationship is all about.
2006-08-03 05:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋