2006-08-02 22:03:09 · 15 answers · asked by Blondie Chickie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, did you do the following beforehand:
1. Really put each other first (even before Mom and Dad)?
2. Take 100% responsibility for your own lives and for your own decisions?
3. Make a permanent commitment - in public so you'd be accountable?
If so, then there isn't a problem. If that stuff hasn't happened yet, the answer would be the same regardless of your age: yeah, that is a problem.
2006-08-02 22:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Where did you last see it?
Omigosh, I'm such a dork! Were you talking about virginity? That was my first hunch, but I looked it up on Wikipedia and it actually talked about an actual e-mail thing for personal information. That's why I was being silly and asking where you last saw it.
If you are talking about having lost your virginity at 14, that's too bad. That's mighty early to be having sex. I hope it wasn't an older guy you lost it to. I'm sorry to say that that would be statutory rape if it was. In this country (the US), if you are under 18 you are not legally deemed mature enough to make your own decisions about having sex--and if your sex partner is 18 or older, he (or she) could be in a lot of trouble.
2006-08-03 05:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it's right or wrong is just an opinion. In some cultures girls get married at age 11 and they start having kids shortly afterwards. In the US most people probably wouldn't think it was good, especially if your partner was more than a few years older than you. I'd say the answer to your question depends on the age of your partner and whether it was consentual.
2006-08-03 05:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that 14 is old enough to be having sex...I'm not going to judge you. I just think you might want to wait until you're older to continue doing it. Sex is a BIG deal and can come with a lot of consequences if you're not ready or even too young.
2006-08-03 05:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you were comfortable with it, it's not wrong, but think long and hard before you do it again. Sex is a big responsibility. And not being a virgin doesn't mean you have to do it more until you're ready.
2006-08-03 05:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
V Card = Virginity? Just as long as you weren't sexually assaulted or anything, it's fine. You make your own decisions and you live by it. If you somewhat regret it, then maybe you weren't ready for that choice.
2006-08-03 05:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong but dont' you think you're a lil young to? think about your future, how would you explain that to ur kids when they ask, that's not a good way to start being a role model for them! and when you tell them not to lose it at such a young age, then ur just being a hypocrit!!! not good not good!!!
2006-08-03 05:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by an oriental guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think this way would u want ur kids having sex @ 14! I sure dont
2006-08-03 05:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by nicole_252006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what we all think what matters the most is what u think,if u felt that was it yr time to give it in and it was the right time to do it then it fine,but if u have regret it just that u cant take it back.
2006-08-03 05:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do it sometime. That is the legal age of consent in Canada.
2006-08-03 05:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋