i have a great bunch of friends and that are kinda ranked, from the most popular to the least and that kind of stuff
I changed to be right at the top of that rank, but the new me is killing all the ones who truely loved me for the real me...........
i just want to fu(king dissapear please help me
even the gurl who loved me dosnet even talk to me anymore
2006-08-02 21:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by Fancy_shit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't disappear! There is still hope...lol...At first you gotta ask yourself do you like the "new you"? Are you doing things you shouldn't do? To keep up and to be in this popular rank, are you doing things you are not proud of? if the answer is yes, stop right there and re-think the whole situation. To be popular and liked you don't have to be a bad or irritating person. those who loved you before bound to love you still no matter what you become, unless you are acting viciously or hurting them on purpose...i mean turn into somebody "evil", which i really doubt. You know if i were your friend i wouldn't get mad at you for behaving differently, I would try to understand what is really motivating you to behave in this particular manner... u get what i mean? the desire to be on high rank, and being popular isn't a sin...it's kinda natural. but make sure you don't hurt anybody along the way.
2006-08-02 22:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the higher rank people only like u for how u look and appear.
the lower rank people love u 4 who u r on the inside - the real u.
remember - its not whats on the outside that counts.
its what on the inside of a person that really matters.
u should not change who u are just so a group of people will like u and approve of u. y would u wanna go thru all that anyhow when u already had friends that loved u perfectly 4 the real you.
u are a high rank to God (and ur real friends) and thats all that should matter.
2006-08-03 04:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by BOSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its killing you that much then start hanging out withthe people who love you the most cuz just think are you really hanging out with tha new group because you like them or because you wannaa be popular??? if you already had a great bunch of friends who really loved and cared about you tyhen why do you need that high of a ranking on the popularity scale?? if you just want to be friends with everyone then just talk to everyone adn try not to be offensive in any way... but still hang with your true best ffrinedz!!!
⥠hope that helped! â¥
2006-08-03 04:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by KJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't EVER change who you are to fit in with others! If they don't like you for the person that you are f u c k them!!!!!!!! For real. I learned a long time ago not to care what other people think of me. You be yourself and do what makes you happy. Don't be fake. No one likes a fake person and being that you don't even like yourself right now should tell you something. Get away from those people and find yourself again.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-03 04:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow wow hold on the truck there boy. these things are natural buddy needent worry. If you have moved down the ranking means that you will be rising to a new higher ranking in the future beleive me...and dont loose hope good things are just round the corner.
2006-08-03 04:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by rahul s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is very clear that you don't really like it being the top guy of your friend circle, i would say you go back to the person who you were cause when you get out of school then you will see that what you were in school isn't gonna do anything with who you will become one day. the people who liked you for who you were is real friends cause they like you for you, but the people who liked you when you were fake are also fake i know it is to get more cool by association but believe me the live outside is more to that. go back to yourself, that is how God created you accept it, don't change for someone else.
good luck
2006-08-03 04:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant be comfortable in your own skin, then there is a real problem. I can tell you that confidence in yourself comes with age. You shouldnt turn your back on those that truly liked you for you.
2006-08-03 04:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by whiskeygrl319 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rank doesn't me sh!t, be yourself and stop trying to please everyone else. Send the girl some flowers, show up at her front door and apologize. Apologize to everyone and change, be yourself again, give it time. If you wanna talk email me at the_gurl_in_ur_liquid_dreams at yahoo dot com.
2006-08-03 04:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by the_gurl_in_ur_liquid_dreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be yourself, and only surround yourself with people who love and respect you. if your grl really loved you she would look past any changes and see the real you, or at least tell you why she wont talk to you.
2006-08-03 04:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you got do do is be yourself not a follower,choose the stuff you like not what others choose for you.basically dont be fake if you act fake then noone will like you good luck bro!
2006-08-03 04:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by pacsunsurfchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋