Ok my boyfriend always like jokes about him cheating on me with this girl named susan long story behing this susan girl but from what i was hearing about her i already don't like her because she likes my boyfriend but he always is using these senarios with her and then when i get mad about it he says he is just playing and so i have told him time after time don't joke around about that because i feel like its being immature and he doesn't see it that way and he got mad when i told him this could be the very thing that breaks us up. What should i do?
2006-08-02 21:35:39 · 12 answers · asked by yopoopy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't joke around about cheating on him i don't accuse him of cheating on me what the fonk am i doing wrong?
2006-08-02 21:43:32 · update #1
Sounds like its his way of getting some self assurance from you.. for example when he stirs you up about this you get angry and jealouse.. he probably finds this flattering and cute.. Next time he brings this girl up and starts stirring..play along with him, or maybe say something like.. well, maybe susan will put up with (and point out one of his faults) ..tease him back a little.. he will soon enough stop playing this game once you stop giving him the desired response..
2006-08-02 21:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by channille 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are absolutely right. It not only could be the thing that breaks you up. It *should* be the thing that breaks you up - the sooner the better.
And if they get together afterwards, they will have the chance to learn the hard way together why they should adopt a different attitude towards relationships - because sometime down the road, there will be a third party, and a fourth, and a fifth, and then a breakup. When it all could have been avoided if they took a serious view of either being friends, or having a permanent, exclusive commitment.
You, in the meantime, will be free to find someone who is serious-minded enough to have the kind of relationship you evidently know in your heart is the right thing. There are guys like that out there, and they are worth waiting for. And so, for that matter, are you...
2006-08-02 21:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have already done that with Susan. It is time to move on if he won't stop teasing.
2006-08-02 21:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl watch yr back if he hasn't cheated with her he is going to,if u care about the person u cant hurt him\her interntional,u have told him a million times don't joke about that,he must respect u,u deserve better then what u been recieving.
2006-08-02 21:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he being immature & isnt giving a rats butt aboout ur feelings,if hes been doing this 4 awhile & doesnt want 2 stop it no matter how bad it makes u feel then he isnt worth keeping
2006-08-02 21:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by lover69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hez pushing you around girl.. u need to show him dat ur the boss of him. .and that u own him.. so u need to talk to him about him.. tell him that if he keps saying that hez cheatin on u with that susan girl.. then u wud lose his trust and that u would start doubting on him.. ask him if hez serious abt ur relationship.. nd if he says yes then tell him to stop fooling around..
2006-08-02 21:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_babe30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably tired of being asked is he's cheating. i guess he jokes around to get back at you or something.
2006-08-02 21:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by bossdman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes testing the waters,if he hadn't already, if you stay with him you need to make some jokes of your own or your headed to dumpvile population you
2006-08-02 21:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by james j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's a guy.. we do stupid stuff like that when were young. it makes us think that you can't find anyone else... Turn the tables tell him you will to. and see how he freaks out
2006-08-02 21:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before he cheats on you!
2006-08-02 21:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by j@mE$ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋