No ego here. Just curious to see what the most common answer is. For me about women is their ability to have a strong inner strength melded with a confident sexuality. (of course not all women, but I am saying what I find great about women in general.) Think about the question as a general.
2006-08-02 21:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Hmmmmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're up to it, go to my profile and answer which song you like to make love to or have down right animalistic sex to? Thanks women!
2006-08-02 21:20:54 · update #1
well first of all its nothing to do with money--thats just being a gold digger to me--my husband makes a 130,000$ a year and i want a dirvorce--so its not always bout the money--its bout what attracts you to another person--personality,emotionality, and sense of being--thats what i go for anyway--not much to do bout looks or money--just to know that i click wit him and we are on the same level of thinking--its not always sex either--there is other things in a relationship than just a big ****--sorry ladies alot of you dont even need a man if this is all you think bout a man--listen im in a 13 year relationship now where im emotionally,mentally, but not physically abused--i dont take **** like this for granted anymore--i would rather be with a poor guy that treated me like i was the only one than with a wealthy guy that treated me like a doormat--this is just my opinion--they are like assholes everyone has them
2006-08-02 21:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by blueeyed sexy blonde 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No offence to all the others, but for me only a tiny minority of men could be described as damn desirable :)
This tiny minority has reasonably good looks (not pretty, I prefer they look like "real" men), is confident, attentive, optimistic, honest, loyal and has a sense of humour.
Now this can still be ruined when they are lazy or bossy, but they can earn extra bonus points if they can hide being bored when we go shopping !
2006-08-02 21:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wee bit on the looks department but for me, if the guy is all good looks but a no-sense conversationalist, I'd eb the first to say "Bye. Nice meeting you.." Believe it or not, most women go for those who are real and can make us laugh. And of course, with brains..
2006-08-02 21:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you little adorable desirable sweetheart you...lol
i think our creator did that, when he invented us, men were designed to "MAKE BABIES" and women to give birth,,
The part of nature and mother nature did was add attraction..
there is chemistry,, for real,
it is like a desire for one woman you have may be so strong, and another one, not very, or horribly not attracted, and their are females that make you so excited, and maybe another guy could take it or leave it, so, turn this around, and women are attracted to you handsome, sexy rugged, intelligent or athletic types, and it is chemistry,
just as in animals, lyons, male and female.. they go sniff around and to you and i the males all look like big hairy lins, but to the female lion, they do not mate until lthe one that "turns them on " THE CHEMISTRY...
Some men, that are desirable, make it even more desirable by dressing sexy, nice cologne, they are a great kisser, etc and they are as you put it so damn desirable.
Bottom line, it is chemistry..aniimal magnatism,,etc,
does that answer your question....you desirable hunk...
2006-08-02 21:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for the smile...non-physical would be great personality! That's why all the guys that I got to meet at webdate_dot_com, I make sure that they have a gorgeous smile because I'm a sucker for it!
2006-08-02 23:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a man that makes me feel safe. I need a man who can take on the man role and make me feel safe and protected, I like shoulders biggest turn on.
2006-08-02 21:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i go for looks. then i need ta know if they are conceited. and single. lol. but usually cute guys are conceited. also they need to be funny and nice. of course, some guys just act tough on the outside but i'll still like him if he's nice to at least me.
2006-08-02 21:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by angie :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it's about feeling like i have a protector i suppose,, a friend a lover and someone to protect me , oh yeah and the obvious, nice strong arms around me and that lovely big dangly thing between the legs..LOL
2006-08-02 21:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact you are men and we are straight women. Biology is a wonderful thing.
2006-08-02 21:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The eyes are what attracts me to them first, then their heart keeps them desirable
2006-08-02 21:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by yobaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋