What does it mean when a man calls you three four times a day now he may call once a day or once a week does that mean that he does not want to talk to me or does that mean he thinks were moving too fast and want to slow down can any men help me with this one please
2006-08-02 20:39:21 · 19 answers · asked by lovechildjw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His jobs keeps him traveling and i don't get to see him that much. Answer this, If I show him less intrest will he want me more. How do you get a man to want you more and for him to tell you that.
2006-08-02 21:16:35 · update #1
I believe it is just a strategy for him, calling 3-4 times a day everyday can annoy you, once a week will means nothing. He just want to know your reaction for his every move, you may show excitement while talking to him if he called once a week. He doesn't also want u to be annoyed if he call always.
He just want to know if you like him or not. If he is already convinced that u like him (based on your conversations), calls will flow consistently. But if he sensed that you're not interested, he may give call you once in a week or a month. Show if you're interested or not and he'll give you hat you want.
2006-08-02 21:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Spurs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only known each other a short time, he may have been infatuated, at first, or maybe he just likes the idea of being liked by someone (i.e. you). Now, perhaps, that's worn off and he is (like you are) wondering where that initial feeling went.
He could be hoping it comes back, or he could be frustrated that it's worn off... it might have nothing to do with you (unless you've left some major detail out about why the abrupt change in the frequency of phone calls). He could be busy, or he might have stuff on his mind.
But ask yourself this: does it matter how many times he calls, or is the quality of the conversation more important?
2006-08-02 20:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by The_Fisher_King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it means many things but what is the way he talks that is more important then the number of times he calls. Maybe he is more busy in his work so not getting enough time. but is the manner of talking changed. if that has then he wants to slow down. the best way to find out is ask the man straight.
2006-08-02 20:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really mean anything. The point isn't on how often he calls you. The point is that he does call you, that's the sign that he likes you in some fashion. Us guys sometimes get nervous about calling a girl, maybe that's his way of showing that he still likes you, but doesn't want to be overbearing.
2006-08-02 20:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by The Lonely Skywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you guys do 'anything' from the point of 3-4 calls a day to the point of 1 call a day? Maybe he has found someone else?
2006-08-02 20:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just ran out of things to say. You shouldn't have been spending so much time on the phone anyway, because it deprives you both of much important body language. I think you should start calling him instead. Or maybe you two should just meet more often. Good luck!
2006-08-02 20:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punctuation
2006-08-02 20:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by nkbocc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just lean back .. to make you wont him more and make you wonder what he is doing now and why he is not calling .. if he called u 20 time a day u will bored from him .. this man is expert ,, believe me on that
2006-08-02 20:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by helios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did that than.. maybe he's got bored and wants to break up. But i don't know your man, maybe he got something to do (busy) or maybe that's just the way he does.
2006-08-02 20:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by d4rk_w4t3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is busy or he just last interest, get over it , u are a girl, just go to a bar, stand on a table and tell theym yr wet and willing and u will have anew boy in no time
2006-08-02 20:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋