I always fall in love with the wrong guys... at first everything seems to be fine, he seems to like me very much but after a few days they start to behave strangely...
Where is my mistake?
When I really like someone I show it and may be this is one of the things... Do you like the girls more when they don't show you their feelings?
Give me some advice how to behave...
2006-08-02 20:08:06 · 19 answers · asked by little cruel creature 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look tere is a law of nature.the moment a thing becomes too easily attainable,we tend to loose our interest in it but the moment u hav to make an effort to attain the same thing it becomes more challanging,so don't follow ur boyfrnd,hold tight,jst show tat u hav a PASSING INTEREST IN HIM,DON'T CAL HIM,BT TALK TO HIM PROPERLY WEN HE CALS UP & WATCH THE MAGIC.HE WL BE FOLLOWING U RATHER THAN U HANGING ONTO HIS TAILCOATS.
2006-08-02 20:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by sadia a 1 · 26⤊ 8⤋
Hi first.
Than, It's a difficult problem I think. But, I advise you to seach the character of your friends. There are three way to understand the character of a man/woman generally.
1) make journey with him/her
2) Have a meal (lunch or Dinner or Breakfast) together
3) I couldn't remember this one... (anyway)
Generally girls can to be deceived by guys with a small present. The important thing is sincere always. Even you can find the one you look for... Take care
2006-08-03 03:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God did not created all of us so perfect without short coming.We can not blame our God.God will be fair if He created us not all same no difference at all.ou have failed several times in relationship with your boy friend (bf) because you said you loved the wrong guys.My advice for you:
1)You must introspect or review deeply your attitudes whether you are smart enough or not. You do not make an adjustment to what are wanted by your guy. or to be liked by your guy if it was right.
You must keep at yourself, your original attitude But if you found that your attitude was wrong you must correct it rightly if it was not a good habit.
2)You must collect all informations you need about your guy,directly from him,from his close friends,from his family and other sourcesYou must evaluate the collected informations carefully and criticely.whether this attitudes are original from his good habit or it is only to make you happy.and have a wrong conclusion about him.
3)You must discuss with him deliberately what are his bad attitudesthat you hate it.You suggest to correct it but if in the near future he acted the something,thsat was his bad habit which is difficult to better it.
4)If you can not accept his shortcoming so you are better cut or stop your relationship with him.There are many good guys in this extensive and wide world.Our world is not just as big as a leaf..
You can make so many relationships with guys and then you
select one who fit with your criteria. and your idea.May God bless
you.
2006-08-03 03:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its right it all falls into place. I have a one set rules that keeps me out of most trouble.... dont date anyone at work because that will change thing quickly.
I'm not a touchy feely kinda guy and that would push me away as well but you have to talk with your partner about it all COMMUNICATION is the key.
2006-08-03 03:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by cost cutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must keep a check on your move and behavior , go very slow , allow your man to take lead , you simply follow , don't laugh too much , remain sober not aggressive , do not argue , no nagging , same time be a good listener and jovial .
2006-08-03 03:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just dating the wrong guys. There are matches out there for everybody that do not require you to change your personality for them. The challenge is in finding them.
2006-08-03 03:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know the guy first before opening up but its not easy most guys like women don't know what they want so if he doesn't come after you then he probably don't want anything more then a piece of a_s_s.
2006-08-03 03:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, be open, don't be a hoe. (not that I'm saying you have been) Also, pick guys who have more of a depth to them selves. and one more thing...keep away from nut jobs, artist, and programmers. (I guess you wouldn't be dating me I fit all three groups lol)
2006-08-03 03:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl usually showing me that she likes me.....
2006-08-03 03:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by moarteainvacanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i like girls that show their feelings cuz its more easier for me to see and hear what they gots to say...and if you want to get a guy then try expressing your feelings to him...maybe it would work!!!
2006-08-03 03:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by mien_hottest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right guy, its better to be a loved one than you love some one.
2006-08-03 03:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by senthil r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋