What should I do to recover the relationship again that is breaking?How to Mend this relationship again?

Question

how do i know the person love me or we are just friends, his action is love but he keep on saying don't love u.
i met him two years ago,in the past we went out together alone. but last year somthing happen, and i did told him i love him, he give me money,send me home and even burn love songs to me,but now i ask him go out with me he said want another person to come along.He said cautions of what he is doing, don't want people or me to misunderstand, How what should i do to go back like what we use to be together? i really love HIM.but i also have done wrong in the first place cause i treat him as a substitute of the person that i love in my secondary school. he knew this story when we first met. I told him recently i chat with him in msn i said its not fair for me to treat him as a substitute,he reply say ya. Can someone help me in this problem i really love him how can i capture his heart again?? what is the cause of this relationship to turn cold? what should i Do Now? I REALLY LOVE

Answer 1

what you should do is make back at life your life is disaperinn like a snap well do this take him out to a nice resturant or diner what eva thats is and explain leave buddy in the msn he probaly ingnore you becuase you treating him like that the boy is gineus i would do the same to my girl if she subtitute me well try to get him back and explain to him go out wit him wheteher he like it or not prove that you want the relationship strong that should do it

Answer 2

Here are quesitons to determine if it's love or just friendship?

Does he declare his love for you to others?
Has he introduced you to all his friends and family?
Does he discuss long term plans with you?
Is he making personal plans that will accomodate you in the long term?

If the answer is "NO" to those questions, you have your work cut out for you.

To get him back, figure out if you have what he wants and if you can happily supply it. If you can't supply it, you many have to look for that kind of love from other people.

You may continue to love him forever, but he may not choose the same with you.

To the degree you perceive he has not shown you fair love in return, work to reach out and show love TO OTHERS. There are so many people who will benefit from your intelligent, loving actions. If you look consistently and carefully, you will find people who reciprocate in new, equal, and unique ways. Make your work to "find & share love" an artform.

I wish you happiness. It does not sound like you feel trapped in a cycle, feeling you have lost your one true love or soulmate. But even if you did (with this guy or some other guy) consider this: Just as there is probably not one answer to solve all of your questions, there probably is not just one person to meet all your interests.

To twist the Rolling Stones - You can't always get what you want, but if you try new and different things, you just might find other people to meet your different needs.