heres this guy i like.he invites me with him to hang out with him & his friends.he seems to like me through the sighns i saw but im not shure.we bump into eachother at a local skatepark in a mall alot && we sometimes end up going to see a movie at the mall.he also makes futuer references like hanging out.his good friend likes me but i dont think he hangs out with me for his friend.but last friday i saw him at the movies && i was with my friend so we decided to see a movie with him but he didnt sit with his friend he sat next to me & after the movie he said he had fun when it wasnt even a date.but i was recently flirting with this kid in front of him when we were all talking in a group in front of him && ever since then hes been paying less attention to me whats going on?
2006-08-02 19:51:00 · 14 answers · asked by ripcurlxxchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say he definitly likes you. Future plans is a sign, he is trying to hang out with you, and he even sat with you instead of his friend. The reason why he is paying less attention to you is because he saw you flirting with someone. He's probably either just down that you were flirting with someone else and has lost hope between you two, or he is trying to make you realize how much he was paying attention to you. I'd hang on to this one because he seems like a nice guy that would care about you. Talk to him about it if you have to. If you like him then I would try to give more signs that you do, but if you don't like him, and you find out he does, it's probably best to tell him you don't think of him the same as he does you. You can't let somone down easy. Good luck with everything and enjoy life to the fullest!
2006-08-02 20:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 3⤋
Why were you flirting with someone else in front of him? That's a bad move if you like him. He's probably given up on you. You might still have a chance if you go over to him and start flirting with him and not anyone else. Good luck!
2006-08-02 19:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That boy really likes you. I had the same problem when I was around um.... 10 now im 14 taking girl to movies and things, I really liked my first girlfriend, I was to shy to ask her out and say my feelings or even to make a move. Finally i built up the courage, if he likes you he will come around. He may not have the courage so it's completly fine for you to ask him.
2006-08-02 19:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out but time him you want to know what is going on and that if he likes you that he better get a move on because you not going to hang around waiting for him forever.
If he likes you and you like him thing will fall into place if not both of you need to move on, it sounds like that you wouldn t have any trouble finding someone new.
He must like you cause there is an unwritten rule Mates before Dates so if he ditches his mates to sit with you he is making an effort to be with you small but it shows that you have nothing to loose if you confront him.
2006-08-02 20:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by cost cutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had him and your starting to lose him... if you like him you need to give him the attention. yes he definitely likes you but he's nice and polite and decided if you're not interested he's not gonna bug you. some of us do that. some of us don't get the hint. my hunch is this guy is sensitive and practical and probably a decent person to go out with. if you want to, i woudl say you more than have a chance. if not, then just know he's probably interested...but too polite to really bring it up.
2006-08-02 19:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% chance he likes you...... but he just dosen't want to get it 'wrong' (shy). On the less attention part, he had his feelings hurt and probably thinks that you are not attracted to him.
My answer is: Make the first move and ask him out.
2006-08-02 20:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been interested in you and thought you were as well, but after he saw you flirting with the other guy he prob thought you wern't interested in him.
2006-08-02 19:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by jay_086 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outside of a t-shirt saying he likes you, i'd say the signs are there. Final test? Ask him out on a date.
2006-08-02 19:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by spdbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both of you are not sure about the feeling toward to eachother. That is :)
2006-08-02 19:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by wingz19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he def. likes you .
but maybe he thinks you dont like him and u like the guy u were flirting with .
maybe he thinks u think of him as only a friend .
you should ask him how he feels ?
or tell him how you feel .
2006-08-02 19:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋