im 15 and i really like this girl but she likes this other guy quite a bit and she only likes me a little but i am in love with her, do i just try to move on or should i try to do things to make her like me. any tips, cuz i need em, im stuck. PLEASE.
2006-08-02 19:44:55 · 19 answers · asked by SpeakTruth110 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make someone like you. but you can be yourself and maybe she will start to like you. i hope things work out for you.♥ don't learn the hard way. believe me. i kinda did. see i b/up with this guy that was like in luv with me cuz i thought i had a chance with another dude but it turned out that dude didn't really like me and he was just playing games with me. and now i can't get my ex back. he has already moved on.
2006-08-02 20:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok baby there are many different situations but I believe this would be the best.
1)Become her friend and get to know her as just a friend but on the slick flirt a little bit that way you can still be around her and get to know what she does and don't like about a boy because she will talk to you about her boyfriend and you still get to be around her anytime.
(the guy or relationship she is in ain't gonna last long)
2)When she is feeling sad about the break-up or put down then that's where you come in.
3)Let her know how you feel and everything you've been doing to get her.
4)Ask her out!!!!!
2006-08-02 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by BabyB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you really sure she likes you a little? find that out. If she likes you a little you should keep trying. There's a saying every cloud has a silver lining this means there's always hope if there's a little chance. So try it tell her your feelings and ask if she likes you, she says yes then go for it, ask her out. You might want to do this in person as well.
2006-08-02 19:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if wisdom comes with age-- hold on to your pants my boy cause im giving you pearls here ( ok i know thats not my words anyway)
First please don't tell her youl love her- no no no the one thing you can count on is this other guy screwing up-- oh yes he will dont ask me how I know I just know-- but right now you are getting ready -- for what you my ask-- well you are getting ready to get your girl- you are the one she can depend on you are the one she turns to when #1 guys screws up-- she has to believe that you are the one she cant trust with her doubts and fears-- and you have to listen and not say a word be her knight keep her everything she tells you to yourself and it will be hard just to listen with trying to make guy #1 look bad and yourself look good - but you can do it -- if the time comes and she tells you something that #1 did or said-- ask her if she is sure that he meant it in that way or if she knows for sure that he did whatever-- be the good guy be her friend without trashing guy #1 in the end guess who gets the girl--- kindness and a shoulder to cry on goes along long way-- if she is talking about #1 she already knows what he is she doent need you to tell her she has picked the wrong guy-- and until this happens be her friend do things nice for her while going on with your life let her see that you like her and respect her and that you are there for her -- but play it smart dont be stuck honey get up and go to work -- smile show her who you are and remember who you are -- You are her Knight in shining armor--
2006-08-02 20:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by ibelieve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always could try asking her out. You could be very direct and could ask her out to the movies or dinner, or you could just find an excuse to hang out with her and give her a chance to get to know you. Take a walk, go to the park, anywhere that you to can hang out. You could always confess and let her know how you feel, suggested script "I really don't want to wierd you out or anything, but I really like you and hope that maybe you feel a little of the same." If she does not share your feelings, then let her know you understand and respect her feelings. You could always remain friends. Besides, you're still young and there are plenty of girls out there. Don't settle just for one. Trust me I've been there when it came to guys.
2006-08-02 19:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by juannabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell her your in love with her.just be casual and ask her out .the worst that can happen is she says no but that isnt the end of the world.rejections is part of life and you'll never know what shed say if you dont ask.and dont even think about the other guy have confidence in yourself and thats what she'll notice if shes worth your time anyways.
2006-08-02 19:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by andy f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does she like about this other guy? as a girl, i don't think that the "second-choice" guy ever has a shot because in a girl's eyes thats what he will always be. i think that you should ask her out once and if she doesn't change her mind that one time then just move on. no use in being lead on because she wants to be nice and then just getting your heart broken. that's how girls are...sorry....
2006-08-02 19:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by hoedurwhorses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, young love. Not much you can do if she likes that other guy. Only time will tell. Maybe you should ask her out? Tell her to just give you on chance? Good luck hun!
2006-08-02 19:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go talk with her parents, tell them that you are serious about this, you really want to marry her. All should be fine after that.
win the parents first, they will not care about the other one, and you'll be the winner.
2006-08-02 19:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; if you're a young bloke and you're 'having girl issues', God is probably the only one who can help you save the day!!
2006-08-02 19:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋