i like this girl, she was going to ask out this boy i told her she couldn't cuz i loved her and knew he was dating someone else. she though it was sweet but though i was being jelious. he dumped the other girl careless for her. i really like her anything i can do?
my bf told me that if i wait she will relise what kind of person i am and she will love me but i only have 2 years b4 i move:( HELP
btw we're 13
2006-08-02 19:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Reid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't move on she is my life
2006-08-02 19:19:07 · update #1
i know she likes me back becuse when she see's me it's like the sun starts shining on a crappy day. i see it in her eyes but i know she's not ready do i wait?
2006-08-02 19:21:26 · update #2
Just drop it and move on. Good luck with the next one!
And she is not your life. It only seems that way because puberty does that to your emotions. Trust me, you will only cause yourself pain if you persist.
And about all that sunshine stuff, it's all in your head. That is a very common mistake that even adult men make. They imagine that the girl likes them back just because they like the girl so intensely. I think it's a result of watching too many romance movies and TV shows to know how things work in the real world. Keep it real!
2006-08-02 19:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard putting yourself out there like you did and that she interpreted what you wanted to do as you being jealous. But you can't change someone's feelings. Let her make her own mistake about choosing this guy. She has to realize it on her on. Your friend was right, maybe if you wait she'll realize what a great guy you are and will like you back. But if it doesnt happen, then there's sadly nothing you can do? Sometimes whats so great about love is getting hurt, growing up youll have so many crushes,heartbreaks, but in the end you'll find someone who'll truly make you realize how lucky you are. This girl doesn't know what she's missing. For now, just try to keep your mind off her...I'm sure youll find the right girl soon enough.
2006-08-03 02:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you already did what you could sweetie you were honest with her about how you felt. So she does know, I agree with your best friend, sit back and watch how things play out. Being with her isn't completely out of the question, this guy she's interested in now isn't stopping anything he's just slowing it down
2006-08-03 02:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a grrl loves it when a guy has confidence u need to be the man hellow !!
2006-08-03 02:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by nikkicola25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... waiting does no good...
god only helps thm who help demself....
so go out there... be a man.. and ask her out... tell her how u feel abt her.. tell her how incomplete u are without her and that she completes u....
go out there and give it a shot...
best of luk...
2006-08-03 02:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by yo_kuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worring about relationships sweetie youre soooooo young!!!! there will be many "loves" ..........go out side and play or something
2006-08-03 02:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by stonedstephie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another chick man!!! 13?? you are a baby!!
2006-08-03 02:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in a mess, move on
2006-08-03 02:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T WORRY. MOVE ON
2006-08-03 02:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋