Is there a saying in the bible that we can't have it ? Is it sinful ? My wife refuse to have it coz she felt sinful. We are young christians, please help.
2006-08-02 19:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by Vince 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Extton is completely wrong; it doesn't "count as sodomy". Any kind of lovemaking between man & wife is perfectly OK, according to Hebrews 13:4,
"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
Fornication, as you may know, is sex before marriage, and adultery is sex outside of one's marriage. But the marriage bed is undefiled, which means whatever you and your wife want to do to please each other, pleases God.
Nice to see a young couple walking in obedience to our Lord--may He richly bless you!
2006-08-02 19:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Between a husband and wife - sex has no limit. Sex is not for reproduction alone. If it was only for reproduction, there should not be sex desire in the females except during the fertile hours (days). It means sex is for entertainment too. This is the best entertainment the husband and wife together can have. There is no sin it. Only thing respect each other and join for mutual pleasure and entertainment. You will really enjoy your life.
2006-08-03 02:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by latterviews 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The bible says a lot of things ,but if you take it word for word you will never get anywhere. Every one has different ways of looking at a bibles content also. But one thing a bible doesn't have is feelings it is a book and only a book to guide you but how do you and everyone else feel about it , and I bet no one feels the same.
What I'm trying to say is you and your wife have very special feelings for each other. But they are probably not the same you say you love each other but how do you feel and what does she feel. Oral sex is something you do together because you want to feel different thing in life .but like anything else you have to do it because you want to Or don't not because a book says it . Because it is hoe your spouse feels about it. Like anything if it is meant to happen it will
2006-08-03 02:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Edward K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, oral sex is definately allowed. It is considered "foreplay". And this, if leading up to the marital act (intercourse) is most definately allowed. Not sinful, so go ahead and enjoy the very gift God gave us. Sex is meant to be Holy when between a husband and wife.
2006-08-03 02:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Fidei76 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is allowable for a married couple to have all kinds of sex. God created it and if both of you are comfortable with it then I say go ahead. There is a real good website about sex and other things like that especially for Christians, go to themarriagebed.com, its really thorough and talks about stuff you probably haven't even considered. Hope this helped. ToodleLoo.
2006-08-03 02:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by babygemini261 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vince you can have sex as you are man and wife and do any style as long as it doesnt involve third party.The song of Moses talks about the joys of oral sex.ENJOY!!Father expects you to !!!
2006-08-03 02:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by jas3tm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God created it. He made it feel good on purpose. Do you think he did this by accident.
dont let bible thumping christians tell you that anything about sex with your husbond is bad.
Your body is his, and his is yours. Your job is to make eachother feel good in ways no one else can.
Enjoy it.
2006-08-03 02:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by oneakmusic 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
according to the bible the marriage bed is undefiled ... anything you feel like doing is ok imo ... if she dont like it and is making an excuse thats another story altogether yall might need to work on ... why? do you give her oral pleasure to? its give an take you know...
2006-08-03 02:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex actually counts as "sodomy." If sodomy is a sin, so is oral sex.
As a rational person, i would say, no, god would not consider oral sex to be immoral. It's an enjoyable activity that can be practiced with one with whom you are in love. There's no rational reason that it would be wrong.
2006-08-03 02:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is only a sin if she don't want to. you can't force her to do it. but if both agree and enjoy it I think it will be fine :-)
2006-08-03 02:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by GodsHolyFire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋