I like him and he is very nice to me but I am scared that he is after every girl, and he only wants to use me.I met him long time ago at an upscale, huge dinner party and he was after me ever since, acting like he has some serious feelings for me but I can't believe him. HELP !!! Guys do you think he is playing a game ? What can I do to check if his feelings are true ?
2006-08-02
19:07:08
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Amanda M
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Wooow, so many answers this quickly. Thanks :-). I'll add couple details. I am not after his money, it even makes me feel uncomfortable thinking that he is rich and he might think that I am after his money. He is just really nice and down to earth, that's why I like him.I don't want to use him, but I don't want him to use me either. So, I guess this will change the answers a little bit.
2006-08-02
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Give him a shot just try to keep your feelings from getting involved untill you know the truth. My hubby is 41 and Im 25 so age doesnt really matter its how the person makes you feel and treats you. Might turn out being the best thing you ever did.
2006-08-02 19:10:13
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answered by richards_girl24 1
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If you really think you could enjoy a relationship with this person then go for it... He might just be going after you simply because he knows he could get anyone he wants because he has money. If he seems like he doesn't truly care for his money, then he could just really like you. The age difference isn't a big plus, but love is love, what can you do. I guess it wouldn't hurt to give it a try, you can always break it off later. If you don't give it a try, then you might just always be wondering what there could have been. Live life to the fullest and if it doesn't work out, you'll just have a story to tell.
2006-08-02 19:18:00
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answered by Anonymous
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He is just after sex and a possession. Since you have said NO (I suppose that is the case) you are now a goal/game/toy for him to conquer.
Do not have sex with him. Invite him to church! That will shock him since it is obvious he has no moral standing. At his age he should be married, taking care of a family, etc. These kind of men may be rich, but only materially. He sounds very immature to me. He may also think because of your age that you will OBEY him and please his every whim. He is counting on your low-self-esteem (I don't mean to infer that you have this, but that HE may think this is the case.). Often women his own age scare the sh** out of him.
His feelings are not true. Follow your instinct. By the way older men can actually give you infections because of the bacteria on their bodies. It's not VD I'm referring to. I can't remember it, hopefully someone else who reads this knows what I'm talking about, anyway it can make it hard for you to conceive babies later on.
2006-08-02 19:17:40
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answered by Alea S 7
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Richest Footballer interior the international is probable david beckham, richest guy probable bill Gates Richest individual linked with english soccer Roman Abravitch or despite he's termed - undecided with reference to the Glazers they are stinking rich too. Why this question is in english soccer despite if is rather unusual
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answered by ? 4
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Since you say you like him too then just go along and play it by ear and step your game up! Get him to buy you something and that is how you know. Maybe he is after everyone because he's ugly? Is he? If you feel he will use you then you do the using first!
2006-08-02 19:12:35
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answered by BREIZY2SHA 3
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I believe he is being serious, I know as I get older and stay single I start looking at girls younger than me, mainly because the girls that are my age and worthanything have already been taken. Dont rush into anything if you only like him, but take a shot, he will probably take good care of you
2006-08-02 19:14:28
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answered by vincenzo445 4
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Go out with him and find out what he is after. If you are the typ he is looking for give him a chance. And if it's fun to be with him, be with him. And when it's over it's over.
Just enjoy the time and don't ask what others think. It's important what you think. If you feel unconfortable because he is much older, don't date him.
2006-08-02 19:14:29
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answered by ak2005ok 4
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Let him take you out but decline any physical requests for the first several dates and see where he goes, but what kind of life can you really have with someone double your age, he's already experienced life and you'd miss out...but if the money is worth that then go for it
2006-08-02 19:12:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Think about it, what else would a man twice your age want other than to get into your pants?
Be smart, don't let that man do that to you. He is up to no good.
He says he has "feelings" for you? I can guarantee you the only "feelings" he's having are in his pants.
Don't let that man use you like that.
2006-08-02 19:13:04
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answered by tina m 6
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What reasons do you have for thinking he's after every girl? If you have a good reason, you already have your answer. If he wasn't rich how would you feel? If you wouldn't give him a second thought if he was poor, don't give him one now.
2006-08-02 19:15:40
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answered by Anonymous
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