plz help
2006-08-02 19:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Maybe it's not wrong to want it, but it's wrong to act on that desire. Wait until you are mature enough to know the difference between players, users and great guys. You probably don't know enough about disease prevention and how to avoid pregnancy. And maybe you should wait until it is love, not a crush or puppy love.
2006-08-02 19:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by photonic_beam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong, morally, you want what you want, you can't help that. The wrongness would come in what you do with this want. Sex is very dangerous to people that don't treat it responsibly, and not just on the level of getting diseases or getting pregnant. The act is a connection between two people. Some grow to ignore it, others grow to embrace it, but it's an emotional experience, and you should treat it with respect. If you will not grab the nearest guy and ride him, so to speak, perhaps masturbation - self satisfaction - will keep you from doing something that would be emotionally dangerous to you.
2006-08-02 19:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong. You don't say if you are a boy or a girl, but either way, maybe you are entering puberty a little early. The increase of hormones can cause you to have thoughts and feelings about sex.
Just make sure you don't acutally HAVE sex (or kiss, fool around, etc.) with anyone. You are too young to deal with the emotional and physical consequences.
If the thoughts are constant and preventing you from enjoying your normal life, you might want to talk to a doctor, parent, or counselor.
But if the thoughts are not overwhelming, don't worry. As you get older, it is normal to have sexual feelings. The important thing is not to act on them until you are much older, wiser, and more educated about it.
2006-08-02 19:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by P-nuts and Hair-dos 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong for a preteen to want sex. Are you treating this as a joke? How old are you and what are you doing on the computer at this hour and where are your parents????? If this is not a joke, you need to give yourself a lot of years to grow up before you even consider having sex with someone. If you are unable to type out sex correctly and spell please correctly; you are not old enough to be thinking about having an adult relationship, which includes sex, with anyone. If I caught my preteen child on the computer asking these types of questions; they would be computer-less for quite awhile. You need to be spending your time not wasting your childhood, you will be an adult soon enough; and then you will be wondering where your childhood went and dislike all the responsibilities of being an adult.
2006-08-02 19:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong for you wanting to have sex, if you act on it, then the problems begin.You could end up like me and be a teenage mom, or worse get a disease you can't get rid of. At the very least you will get a broken heart from it,cuz when your that age a guy will say anything to get the goodies, and he knows you'll believe it especially if its "I Love You"
2006-08-02 19:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea U Freaking Freak Get A Hobbie
2006-08-02 19:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by got_milk_its_dairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you go with for to be caught doing it whilst Jesus comes lower back? And Jesus reported whosoever look upon a woman to lust after her commits adultery masturbation has lots to do with lust and in lust is all sin. So yeah the Bible says that's misguided i'm in basic terms a to blame as you're yet have because stopped masturbating once I provide up making excuses for it. Matt.5:28 & I John 2:sixteen
2016-10-01 10:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what teen had to say!
With their parents' permission, 580 9th graders from a variety of ethnic backgrounds answered questions about oral sex. Teens reported:
how many times they'd had oral sex and vaginal sex
whether they thought they'd have oral sex and vaginal sex in the next 6 months
what risks they thought were associated with oral or vaginal sex (like becoming pregnant, getting HIV or chlamydia, or getting a bad reputation)
what benefits they thought were associated with oral or vaginal sex (like experiencing pleasure, being more popular, or improving their relationships)
The teens also were asked how many teens their age they thought were having oral or vaginal sex.
2006-08-02 19:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
You're emotionally and physically too young to handle the effects of such an act. That's why there are LAWS against it!
2006-08-02 19:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your reason for having sex. I waited until I knew I loved someone and knew she loved me before my first time.
2006-08-02 19:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by korines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋