This week my girlfriend and I broke up, my old sick dog had to be put down and me and my remaining dog are moving out of state. My dog is so depressed. I just don't know what to do for her. The dog that had to be put down had been with her for all five years of her life. My girlfriend had been with us for two years. She has lost everything but me. Her home, her best friend and her other mom are all gone.
2006-08-02 18:57:28 · 13 answers · asked by Hidisar 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
Dogs do have feelings! They love companionship. In my opinion, a dog should never be alone.
2006-08-02 19:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is a tough one. Dogs grieve just like people do. Time and love are the best things to give her. Make sure she has discipline too. You have to be strong. When my dog Otto died a tragic death my other dog Champ looked for him for weeks and it was heartbreaking. He eventually stopped looking but once he showed signs of improving we introduced another dog into the home and now Roxy and Champ are good friends. That guy Ceasar Milan really knows what he is talking about when it comes to dogs and I watched 2 episodes last night on the same thing you are going through. I really recommend checking out his website. Also monitor your dogs eating habits and sleep. If you notice huge changes take her to the vet and see what can be done. There are drugs you can give dogs for depression.
Caesar's website
http://www.dogpsychologycenter.com/
http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/channel/dogwhisperer/cesar.html
Good luck and I am so sorry for your loss. They are like family members and I was so upset when my dog passed away.
2006-08-03 02:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of love and attention. My husband passed, my daughter moved out and my dogs father was killed all within 2 months. My dog lost 3 at one time but I give him lots of attention and love and that has seemed to help some. Also bought him some new toys don't replace the loss he and I have endurded but he seems to be happier now.
2006-08-03 02:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your dog very active as much as possible. Showing her a lot of attention will help her depression a lot. Take her for more walks, give her treats, try to get her mind off of things. It works for humans as well as animals.
Good Luck
2006-08-03 02:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I would call your Vet., & explain how your Dog is reacting to the loss, & maybe they can suggest something to you, to help the Dog's Trauma, & Distress, everyone did give good advice, but maybe you would feel better if a Vet. Dr. suggests something too. All my best, to you, & I'm so sorry.
2006-08-03 02:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're both grieving.
I'd give your dog as much attention as possible. Play with her, take her for walks, take her to the park, let her know as much love as you can. It'll do you both some good.
2006-08-03 02:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Yah00_goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making friends by walking your dog in a place with alot of dogs would help. you and your dog would have new friends...or you could get another dog if its not too much trouble
2006-08-03 02:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by icky vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a puppy. She needs some companionship and responsibility when you arent there. Dogs love puppies, they give them a sense of purpose. Good luck...
2006-08-03 02:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by hipichick777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope everything turns out well for you, your girlfriend and your dog.
2006-08-03 02:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remind her that you still love her she is more than likley greving over the loss of your other dog .you can get another dog aftera little while it may help, keep active with her
she will b ok
2006-08-03 02:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋