Over a year ago, I met this guy that I thought would just be a 1 night stand. Well he wanted to hang out with me the next day, so we exchanged numbers. Ever since then we've had an ongoing sexual relationship without really being bf/gf, because we told each other in the beginning that we had just gotten out of a serious relationship. We've only argued once, and it was because of a jealousy incident (both jealous) Right after that happened I asked him what he thought we were, (6 months ago) especially since I was getting mixed signals- he once introduced me as his girl to this other guy, would treat me like his girl, but then the next day he'd treat me as a booty call. He said, "well it's not like we're bf/gf". When he said that I got mad & walked out. After that, I didn't talk to him for a month, then I called him & now we're back to our old habits again. He's really not the type of guy to show emotions well, so after a year what do you think he thinks of me (situation) does he care?
2006-08-02 18:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes he does care for you as much as you care for him. after a year of casual sex there is a bond that has taken place, and both of you are jealous so you might as well say you two are a couple!
2006-08-02 18:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went thru that , I know what you mean. I did not want to get into a relationship , but because my ex passed away' I met him we dated off and on for over a year. Also other people, When the time was right we decided to live together for few months, then decided to get married. We were married for 27 yrs. The time should be just right. , never rush into anything we did not. He will let you know when he's ready. Action speaks better than words. Good Luck Pem
2006-08-03 01:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care enough. And it seems like you want a man who really cares about you. So don't settle for a guy who just wants you for an occasional fling. You know you want more. And you deserve more. It's time to move on and find a man who can see you're someone special and will treat you like a lady.
2006-08-03 01:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl this is all the same as it was when yall first got together im sure he cares about you but it just aint a dating thing if your looking for more i suggest you move on but if this is what you want you got it he just letting you know you got some good booty so he keep coming back
2006-08-03 01:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it but it sounds like both of you's are enjoying just a booty call.If anything more serious was going to happen it would've by now.
2006-08-03 01:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah Fwibs, always a fun subject. it sounds like you want a relationship with this guy, but he really doesnt know if he does or doesnt. why not try asking him if he wants to start a "bf/gf" relationship with you? say "hey, we have this sexual spark between us, do you think you want to take it to the next level of "us"?" well something like that.
2006-08-03 01:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe you are both afraid to commit and that maybe you've both developed deeper feelings for each other. If you want a REAL relationship spell it out for him, hell ask him out.
If you strait put it to him then you'll know for sure.
2006-08-03 01:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both screwing each other over. Figuratively. Simply put you are both doing the deed of a whore without getting the dosh.
2006-08-03 01:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it. you could end up falling for him w/o having the feelings returned or even with an std since the option of sleeping w others is open.
2006-08-03 01:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by lfortier1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really want my thoughts... I think you should just straight up tell him what you feel and what you want from him... straight up no Uhh.. Er.... Mm... just let him answer what he feels thinks about you... cause really... No one here could tell you HIS feelin's about you... heck he Probably wants the same answer to this same question...
Now My question is... did you ask him yet?
2006-08-03 01:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Miles™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋