A lot of my female friends talk about losing interest in a guys because they're boring to be around, and don't do anything interesting for the relationship.
Well, I lose interest in most of my girlfriends after only a short period of dating. I get tired of having to always keep her interested when she rarely does the same for me. Do other men go through this?
So, should women try as hard as men to keep our interests?
2006-08-02 18:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by KurtNIN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Chivalry says, "Both parties should be responsible. It is strenuous for one person to do all the work. People wonder why their partners don't want to get intimate after they come home tired, or feel tired after working so much at home. There is an addition to the stress if the other party isn't lifting a finger, emotionally as well as physically. Forget all of the 'Don't know what you got til it's gone;' forget the 'how can I get him/her back;' how about we fix it before it's too late."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-03 08:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. my name is cat. and yes women should keep a relationship nice and fresh because if we have to wait for men to do something we will wait for ever. i like to try new things. not hectic weird things but things that make the fire still burn like it did in the beginning. the thing is that you must not let the relationship get boring that is why it does not last. find youself a girl with a open mind. well i hope i help you a bit. keep in touch.
2006-08-02 18:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen to that. I have an ex who complained constantly that I wasn't spontaneous enough...yet she would have nearly every moment of the day planned out! It's kinda hard to be spontaneous when all of your free time is accounted for weeks in advance!
A relationship isn't 50/50 as they say, it's 100%/100% if you want it to work.
2006-08-02 18:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes 2 people to make anything work, if ones not happy, the other will lose intrest. if you want a realtionship to last you both have to put in a 100%
2006-08-02 18:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should but if you ask you will get a good slap to the face
2006-08-02 18:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by nobreadwithvodka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a mutual thing
2006-08-02 18:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋