2006-08-02 18:25:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're a nice guy, breaking up with a girl who loves you might be the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. It's ten times worse than being dumped (I once considered faking my own death rather than tell a girl that it's not working out).
As for how, I don't think there's really a good way. Just make sure she knows that it's absolutely 100% over. Let her know that you're certain in your heart that she's not the one for you, and it's unfair to both of you to waste time together when you could be each looking for a love that will truly satisfy you. Good luck.
2006-08-02 18:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always had a hard time breaking up with my boyfriends, only because they think we're just fighting and won't take no for an answer.
2006-08-03 01:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Leah Rachelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard if you do still like her. But no point being with someone when your heart isn't in it. Honesty is the best policy and at least you haven't done the dirty on her! 10 points for that!
2006-08-03 01:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is guy can not ask to break up with his girl cos he is the one who asked her to be him. But if you really want to get over with her, just tell her. Im a girl and if my boy wants to break up with me, i want him to give me signal first, then talk about the problem(s) we went wrong. If we can't get the resolution, break up with a good way, like both sides agree to break up. It is hard but you can do it!!!!
2006-08-03 01:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a girl it isn't easy for to get stuff like this but hey what can you do don't go real fast like well i think ... this is hard... ease in to it like I've had a great time with you but i don't think that you are the one don't like take it hard if she slaps you you might want to expect that sometimes it depends on the girl
2006-08-03 01:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by lilchacha712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard but you just tell her, that it isn't working out and you want to see other people, or you want to spend some time alone or however you feel. Give her a hug and move on.
-NmD!
2006-08-03 01:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking up is always hard to do..especially if you still love them..how i think you have to do other things ..and keep your mind entertained ....good luck..and if you are breaking up with her ..it has to be a bad reason...because couples don't break up for nothing...good luck whatever decision you make...break up or make up.=-)..
2006-08-03 01:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's hard you should not be breaking up with her...
2006-08-03 01:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not 4 me but if she gets 2 mad or starts crying i just avoid her till she gets a new boy friend.
2006-08-03 01:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by tuxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its always hard because someone always gets hurt. be honest with her and dont lie.
2006-08-03 01:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋