I love a girl very much. We know each other through internet. After that we talk over mobile several time and fallen into deep love on her without seeing each other. When I seen her I just astonished. I couldn’t like her appearance. I didn’t feel comfortable to sit beside her. I now don’t like to meet with her but I couldn’t forget her and leave her without any communication.
2006-08-02 18:09:46 · 9 answers · asked by Humayun K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mmm...
it is possible to love someone...partly.
However, you need to find someone that you love for all of who they are and you are completely attracted to.
She needs to find that person too.
She deserves to be loved like that, wouldn't you agree?
Friendship is precious, don't underestimate it.
But love...it must be so...completely.
I apologize.
I hope my advice helped.
Take care! (The both of you)
2006-08-02 18:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are human--a lack of physical attraction dampens the chance of any romance. Question you should ask yourself is this: can she improve her looks to a level you find attractive, or is she so unattractive that there is no hope for improvement. Sometimes a woman has a very pretty face, but needs to lose a lot of weight. Other women have ugly hairstyles, or wear so much makeup that they look like clowns--these women can usually remedy their appearance. But some women are just not your type (ugly-looking to you). Such women will not be able to bring enough pleasure in a romance. Instead, if you genuinely love the personality of this woman, and she's too ugly to be romantic with, then maintain a platonic friendship. Having a platonic relationship with a woman you are not attracted to can be very rewarding: you get a woman's perspective on things without having some visual distraction getting in the way. But whatever you do, be honest to her. If you just want to be friends, tell her so. If you don't want to keep in touch with her, tell her that she's a good person but you don't think the two of you are a good match for something beyond friendship. If you tell her that, she will probably get the point.
2006-08-02 18:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by MJQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from Internet friends in rl thing.... keep them as close as the Internet..
to be with someone and truly like the relationship, i dont care what shallow hale you have, a relationship must have some physical things going in that
2006-08-02 18:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by foxtrot131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u expecting Angelina Jolie to chat with u now?? Grow up man
2006-08-02 18:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's called the Shallow Hal syndrome.
2006-08-02 18:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by professionalfemale01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda horrible.
dont judge a book by its cover... common now.
besides, you met her over the net without seeing her... you got her personality before you got to see her... you fell in love with HER and that should be all that matters.
2006-08-02 18:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by evita2usally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww don't worry she probably thinks your ugly too hehe.
no seriously...a girl needs a guy that can love her..ALL of her so if you can't then you just need to leave her so yall can both move on.
2006-08-02 18:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by †ᴰᴲᵛᴵᴸ† 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her... move on! stop dating on the internet! you should go outside find a girl you like and talk to her...
2006-08-02 18:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lower your levels man and just dont care
2006-08-02 18:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by jared l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋