When she doesn't wanna spend time with you, and shows no interest but she is happy and lovely with guys, doesn't like even when you ask where she has been and hides everything from you, what's going on and what should I do?
2006-08-02 18:00:09 · 22 answers · asked by albandazole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Either she isn't interested in you because she's feeling trapped in this relationship, or she is in the process of moving on. Maybe you are being too overbearing? My husband did that for a while, and although I wasn't seeking anything from anyone else, I did end up leaving him for a while because I felt like I had no freedom. It's important to trust her reguardless and not make her feel held back. However, if you think that she's on the verge of the breakup process ( and this is usually a good sign), I would call it off now. If you don't want to call it off, fine, but expect to be a bit miserable for a while. Good luck and I hope everything works out!
2006-08-02 18:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she shows no interest and acts suspicious - you should find out what's wrong. Maybe something's been bothering her. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's been seeing other guys. I've had the same type of issue recently. My ex still accuses me of cheating and lying, but I swear on everything I never did. He just didn't dig deep enough. He wasn't supportive enough. He should have been there for me. Just because I left doesn't mean I've done anything with any other guys. But everytime I had an issue, I was "selfish." Whatever. I don't understand men.
2006-08-03 01:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and have her tell you how she feels. Its the only way you'll really know. Let her know that how she's treating you is hurting you and that you can't understand why she's not showing any interest. that you want to spend more time with her and can't understand what she's hiding. Anyone on here can just speculate..but my guess is that this girl is losing interest in you..but talk to her, its the only sure fire way you'll get your best answer.
2006-08-03 01:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A million things could be going on. The only advise I have is to ask her and if she does not open up, then end the relationship. Sometimes people just do not know how to say good bye, or it could be that she does not know how to tell you what she is missing. Give her the chance you are giving us to answer and best of luck!
2006-08-03 01:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sequoia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, you only live once, if she doesn't care enough about your feelings she doesn't deserve you, but learn from this experience, be a strong confident man, that is what most women find sexy. Good Luck!
2006-08-03 01:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by texasgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You are not her type. Be a sport. You will find someone who has interest in you some time. Have patience.Do not harass her with your nagging. There are two types of people. Those who are welcome when they come. And second type is those who are welcome when they go. Be careful. Do not fall into second category.Wish you all the best.
2006-08-03 01:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lady sounds like to me shes cheating on you
2006-08-03 01:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has to much to hide, probably another guy or girl. Dump her!
2006-08-03 01:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she flirts alot , doesnt want to spend time with you & wont tell you where she has been then I would dump her. If its meant to be you will get back together but I doute it.
2006-08-03 01:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just no into u anymore, it sucks but u can find better. dont waste ur time. theres more ladies out there.
2006-08-03 01:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by yahoo2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋