2006-08-02 18:00:08 · 40 answers · asked by unclemikeyt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was up to me, I wouldn't even use a man for pregnancy! Or maybe use him for that, but then I'd be done with him!
2006-08-02 18:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's ridiculous and very childish to use pregnancy as a trap. People are free to choose what they want anyway, if a person didn't want to stick around, reguardless of a baby, they would not stick around. A woman who would go so far as to create a child as a pawn in a game isn't really a woman at all. Just a little girl pretending to be all grown up.
2006-08-02 18:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not right. It is a dumb plan women use to try to trap a man and their plan ends up failing. Either the relationship will be terrible if the man doesn't want you and only stayed with you because it's the right thing to do for the baby, or the man may be like the hell with you and your baby and not be in your life at all. I wouldn't do it. Bad Idea.
2006-08-02 18:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. It's not only a shady ploy, but it's often not at all effective. More often than not, he'll leave and then she's trapped with a child she may not want. Take into consideration this too, that while he may stick around, he won't be happy about it, and then the abuse could start. (I say could because it's only a possibility, not a fact). Also, it's rather ignorant to think he'd stay around to take care of a child he didn't want in the first place.
2006-08-02 18:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Kitae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think many women use that to trap a man. But sometimes it seems that some women have children with guys they don't like so they can use the child support as an extra source of income. Be careful!
2006-08-02 18:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who use pregnancy to trap a man are low creatures, and aren't worth the air they breathe, in my opinion.
2006-08-02 18:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Why would I want to be with a man who has to be trapped into being with me?
2006-08-02 18:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by mom2savi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.It's not only NOT fair to the man but it's NOT fair to an unborn child.However,once your pregnant(hopefully both parties took responsibilty and practiced safe sex),then you have to take care of the baby...both parties.But NEVER trap anyone into anything.
2006-08-02 18:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
H*LL NO! You could never really be sure if he honestly wants to be with you. Plus why be with a man if he doesn't love you? You deserve to be treated like your the world to a man so he can take care of you because he wants to not because he feels obligated or court ordered.
2006-08-02 18:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and i dont belive a female can do this it takes 2 to tangle and both parties know what there doing so a man can only so called trap himself
2006-08-02 18:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not. But I do believe that if a man makes a baby, he should be a Father to it. A child should not be punished for the Mother's wrongdoings.
2006-08-02 18:02:40 · answer #11 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋