ok so, im dating this awsome guy who i think loves me ALOT but im pretty chilled with everything like, i dont mind if he flirts with ither girls or doesnt kall me for a day, i dunno why, im just like whatever not abig deal and i like him and everything but i think hes getting freaked out by my way of being..... is not personal thats just how i am, i do luv him tho.. is this serious not really right?
2006-08-02 17:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT SOUND LIKE YOU ARE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR SELF. AND
THERE NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, AND HE CAN'T ACCEPT THAT THEN IT HIS PROBLEM NOT YOURS, THERE
NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING EASY GOING LAID BACK.
2006-08-02 18:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is fine.. Im the same way. You are just not a jealous person, doesn't mean you don't love big just because you don't have intense feelings of jealousy. Living in a means of not feeling jealous is a lot better than to be someone that gets jealous at the drop of a hat. It says a lot for you. Says you have enough self-confidence in yourself to not worry about all the little things in a relationship. Thats great!
2006-08-02 18:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trust the guy! There is absolutely nothing wrong with that what so ever. If he can't handle a mature relationship then he can move on to someone who will b*tch at him just because one day goes by with out a call.
2006-08-02 18:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend isn't used to girls being so chilled out.. this just shows that you trust him 100%.. this could maybe freak him out simply because he might not trust himself as much... but that could be way to Freudian... God bless.
2006-08-02 18:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is getting freaked out cos he doesnt understand why he is not the centre of your universe. us guys like knowing that all our girlfriends do is pine over us. it makes us feel as though they really care for us. for him knowing that you dont care if he flirts, he sees it as you dont care if you lose him. thats all. theres is nothing wrong with you though. we are all different.
2006-08-02 18:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it means you trust him and that is going to make your relationship strong in the long run.
2006-08-02 18:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...yeah I dont think its serious. I guess if its bugging him then its serious to him, but if you are actually into him, but just not the clingy type, maybe he just hasnt been around girls like you before
2006-08-02 17:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way with my bf except the love part.
2006-08-02 18:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being too trustful is not real smart where men are concerned. Trust him, but watch your back!!!!
2006-08-02 17:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its alright. You just trust him and thats not bad.
2006-08-02 17:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I wish my GF was like you! Seriously.
2006-08-02 17:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋