my bf and i have going for 3 years and he keep putting thing off about getting together (living together)he seem to have other things on his plate and im alway second in his life.
2006-08-02 17:12:13 · 12 answers · asked by shayhi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a hard thing to do, but if he keeps putting things off it is important that he knows how you feel about it. you should talk to him about it if you haven't yet. but you should definitley be one of the top priorities on his list. if you guys broke up, the best thing to do is to get something that reminds you of him, like a picture or something, and burn it. it's like symbolism it's a fresh step and it's like you are burning your feelings away. trust me it helps
2006-08-02 17:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things you should do:
1. Forget this dude. If he doesn't appreciate you, its time for you to move on.
2. Develop more confidence in yourself.
3. Find another boyfriend.
4. Develop your own life so that you don't have to depend on somebody else (for now) to be happy
TX Guy
2006-08-03 00:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say 3 year? I was in for 10 years. But I think it is time to realize there are more important things then love for them and that's why we feel we are always second! I think you need not forget him. You remember that for him love is second thing and thereby you. I think we must shift our priority too!.
2006-08-03 00:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. He obviously doesn't want to settle down right now. He is wasting your time. Start going out with your friends and keep busy. It will take a long time to forget him, but in time you will. Don't waste your time not dating other guys. One just might be Mr. right for you! And as for you soon to be ex it will be his total loss and believe me he will realize it when it's to late!
2006-08-03 00:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you both have to talk to each other. If you are always going to be second in his life, he does not deserve you. He has to spend time with you and you should always be his number one. Honestly, if he doesn't change if I were you, i wouid break up with him and move on. You deserve so much more. But it looks like he won't give any more.
2006-08-03 00:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put him 2nd in line hunny! Show him what it feels like. Take some time for you! If he really loves you, he'll come seek you out for attention. The way it should be right?
2006-08-03 00:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to turn the tables.Come up with ideas to keep you "busy".Once he realizes that you're not always going to wait on him,he'll either wise up or you'll have found someone better to take his place.
2006-08-03 00:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by kikasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST READ IN A MAG TODAY THAT IF HE PUT THINGS AHEAD OF YOU THEN THAT A WAY THEY SIGNS TO BREAK UP WITH YOU. JUST WAIT A LITTLE WHILE LONGER AND TRY TO GET INTO SOME ACTIVIES TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME
2006-08-03 00:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else even if its just for kicks
2006-08-03 00:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by dr_blackshoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another one
2006-08-03 00:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋