Ok he left when I got pregnant, and now he is talking to a girlfriend(*pam*) of mine to ask how I am doing, but yet he doesn't call me or write me to ask me himself. I also had another friend who I thought was talking to him behind my back (*june*), and when that was going on *pam* told me *june* was wrong because she was my friend and he needed to ask me himself. but now *pam* is doing the same thing. i dont know what to do or how to tell her she is wrong without losing a friend, can anyone help, or has anyone had something similar happen to them??
2006-08-02 17:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by *.:marie:.* 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
uh uh, Cassandra up above me is an idiot, don't listen to her. Be strong for yourself, go find the muthafuqqa who got you pregnant and then decided to skip out.... find him and whoop his *** for puttin you through drama while your carrying his child. The nerve of some dudes these days. Make that fool pay child support and get some new homegurls because the ones you got now seem shady.
I was in a bad baby daddy situation too and guys are all idiots, first rule of social interaction (God messed up on adam, so he corrected his mistakes and made Eve, u feel me?)
2006-08-02 21:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
These people are not your friends leave them alone. You have bigger thing to thank about like the child you are about to have. Take that dude for child support and again leave them kick Pam and June to the curb. The are losing out on a good friend not you. When you about to push out a child nothing really matter but that child and that is what you should be thinking about.
2006-08-02 17:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i became a mom at 16 and its a trial.
honestly he is probably talking to them to try to get with them, and acting as though hes concerned about you to make them think its something you've done.
If they are real friends, they will understand what you are saying to them and not talk to him, and when he calls, they will tell him to call you himself. I have A LOT of experience in this kind of situation because im part of a teen mom support group and see it a lot.Basically, you need to file for support as soon as you can. Get him to sign the birth cert though, otherwise you will have to go through a paternity test and those can take a long time if hes not willing..dont let him back into your life.more important than that is the fact that it is all about your baby now...any questions or if you just need to talk to someone who has been there, e mail me at j_brat01@yahoo.com also, you having a boy or girl cause i have LOTS of girl clothes im trying to give away, mostly 0-6 months, some not even used.all in good condition! im here for you!
2006-08-02 17:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the whole lot and find new friends. Your girls don't have your best interests in mind! And get an attorney and get child support!!! Don't let him off the hook!
2006-08-02 17:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to put her strait cause if she was your Friend she would tell him to ask him self.. you don't know if she mite tell him wrong thing about you some time friends talk too much and they over do it
2006-08-02 17:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by dawn b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please give your baby up for adoption. you are far too immature to be someone's mother right now. please don't do this to yourself and the baby.
and, if you do, remember that formula is very very bad for babies and so is day care.
2006-08-02 17:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋