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Poor women giving birth to boys are unable to pay for circumcising their child after birth. Thus, many young men growing up in a single parent home have not been circumcised and I wonder if their future mates find their penis attractive or not because the foreskin has not been removed.

2006-08-02 17:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Some one pays for the circumcision, either the parents, insurance company, or the State. And the States are paying less and less for poor families, while hospitals are turning them away.
The question came up at party where a women said she only has sex with a pretty penis. Wondered what she meant, but didn't ask since I didn't want to show my ignorance.

2006-08-02 17:33:03 · update #1

14 answers

A circumcised penis is a unnatural as woman having her clitoris removed. Women should just get used to the intact penis rather than allowing their male babies to be mutilated without their choice.

These days there are NO hygenic reasons for circumcision if you bathe at least once a day. There will therefore be no smell. Accusations otherwise are just born out of ignorance. If you consider most of European men, for instance, are uncircumcised, don't you think they would have moved to circumcision en masse long ago if circumcision was the most hygenic and correct thing to do? Europe is not medically backward. Circumcision is widely practiced in the USA but the numbers are diminishing every year as more and more parents realise that this is just a moneymaking scam by the medical profession and an unneccessary mutilation of their male child. All major US medical councils state that circumcision is an outdated procedure. And for those women that support circumcision because its 'cleaner', well, your vagina is going to be pretrty rank if you dont wash it every day either.

Almost all other reasons for circumcision are now medically treatable and therefore, circumcision is unneccessary.

For women, an intact penis is DESIGNED to work better that a circumcised one because the foreskin allows for greater movement during sexual intercourse and less lubrication is required.

A foreskin better for the man because his glans is soft and sensitive - the glans on circumcised penises gets thick and hard over the years and decreases sensitivity and can even lead to erection problems.

The natural penis may be more comfortable for the vagina than the circumcised penis. The coronal ridge of the natural penis is more flexible; liken it to the resiliency of Jell-O. The circumcised penile head is considerably harder--overly firm and compacted like an unripe tomato. This is because circumcision cuts away 33-50 percent of penile skin. As a result, the skin of the penile shaft can get stretched so tightly during an erection that it pulls down on the skin covering the glans, compressing the tissue of the penis head. The abnormally hardened coronal ridge can then be very uncomfortable to vaginal tissue during intercourse.

Women sometimes experience a scraping feeling with each outward stroke and even report discomfort after intercourse or even the next day. The brain makes pain-relieving endorphins that may partially block any discomfort during intercourse itself. Painful intercourse is a very common symptom in women, many of whom blame themselves or who feel that something is wrong with their sexual response.

The give of the natural penis, by contrast, allows for more bend and flex of the organ in the vagina, adding to a woman's pleasure and comfort. The abundant skin of the natural penile shaft further cushions the force of the coronal ridge in the vagina. In addition, the mobile skin of the penis is "grasped" by the ridges of the vaginal mucosa and held in place. The bunching and unbunching of penile skin during intercourse enhances a man's pleasure, but it also excites the woman.

Circumcised sex may cause the vagina to abnormally tense up and decrease its lubrication. Women report more problems with lubrication when having sex with circumcised men, possibly because of irritation from the harder tip and involuntary tensing against it, and also because the longer stroke length tends to remove lubrication from the vagina. Often an artificial lubricant is necessary.

Intercourse may also be painful for the circumcised man because his penis scrapes against the ribbed structure of tensed-up vaginal walls and becomes over stimulated from constant pressure. The degree of discomfort, if any, will depend upon the tightness of the man's shaft skin, the vigor of his thrusting, the duration of intercourse, and the amount of lubrication.

Circumcision may cause a man to work harder to achieve orgasm, resulting in emotional and physical distancing from his partner. When a circumcised man has sex, he may have to concentrate intensely on the erotic sensations he is receiving while simultaneously blocking out any uncomfortable sensations. Survey respondents often reported that their circumcised partners seemed to have to work too hard to achieve orgasm. And because of the erotic tissue that has been removed, he can't enjoy the sensations leading up to orgasm or his partner's responses.

Keep boys and men as nature intended them. Stop routine circumcision of baby boys

2006-08-03 00:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jake D 3 · 3 2

That's actually a stereotype u just probably heard from someone. I was born in Florida and they didn't do circumcisions at the hospital i was at so I'm not cirmcumcised. Not to mention that no one poor really even pays for the birth or circumcision of their child. And it is just the same because when your penis is erect the skin pulls back not to mention that we have more nerves in our penis because of the skin so the feeling is alot better. so i think that should answer your question.

2006-08-02 17:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by tayemoore1 2 · 1 0

It isn't a question of whether it is prettier or not. It is strictly about satisfaction. The fact of the matter is that a man that is uncircumcised has far more sensation than a man that has been "cut". That is the bottom line. I personally could care less because if a man can satisfy me, that goes far beyond the looks of his penis i.e. substance before style.

2006-08-02 17:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mico Midnight 2 · 1 0

Mother nature put foreskin there for a reason. But some countries like United States cut babies at the birth and some claim it will save you from all kinds of deceases. Completely contrary to US in Europe routine infant circumcision is seen as something very barbaric and disgusting. So intact is definitely the way to go!!

2016-03-26 21:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I'd like to know what area your talking about because in America even welfare mother's can get their son's circumcised.

Oh and to answer your question, It looks better, smells better, taste's better when it's circumcised.

It's also proven that the adult sex life is better with men who are cut verses those who are not.

2006-08-02 17:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by daddyssoccermom 2 · 0 1

it is all about preference...some girls have not seen an uncircumsized penis b4 so at first it may be a bit overwhelming, but that is just bc it is not what they expected...after all, if they are gonna have sex with you, i would hope they are doing it not for what your penis does or doesnt look like, but, in fact, the type of person you are and your personality.......so dont sweat it, many people are not circumsizing their sons these days as it is reported that males may have more sensitivity if they are uncircumsized!

2006-08-02 17:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by derek s 3 · 0 0

If a future mate loves him, she takes him as he is. Acceptance is part of love. I don't think it makes a difference as long as the uncircumcised man keeps it clean under the foreskin.

2006-08-02 17:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by dlrrn 1 · 1 0

I do not find it unattractive. If the woman loves the man she is with she will not find him undesirable. The only women I can imagine finding an uncircumcised penis unattractive are shallow and not worthy of the person they are with.

2006-08-02 17:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

um, if you are poor and have a child you are usually on welfare and they pay for that crap and doctors usually dont ask IF you want it done...they just do it. YOU have to tell the doctor to NOT do it. and no, they are not any prettier or uglier then a circumcised one.

2006-08-02 17:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0 1

Fortunately this doesn't happen much anymore. You know if you want to get circumcised you better take a couple days off work, you'll need it *wink*

2006-08-02 17:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by elenewende 2 · 1 0

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