2006-08-02 16:57:05 · 18 answers · asked by mitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt mean physcially abusing them what i really meant was flirting that kind of thing.
2006-08-02 17:10:53 · update #1
as a girl i would say..just be urself...really!! and come up to a girl and start a convosation... i would love for a guy to actually talk to me... if that girl acts weird and all preppy then shes not a person u want to be talking to..... pppl that reject are usually rejects!!! hahaaha
2006-08-02 17:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by fighter06_xtina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back, immediately say "hi, how are you?". If she responds with something positive then immediately introduce yourself (e.g., "my name is ___"). If she introduces herself as well, that's great; she likes you enough to "give you the time of day". Then ask her some pleasant, non-threatening (i.e., not too personal) questions. For example, if she's wearing a t-shirt with an interesting saying or picture, ask her about it. If you are both in an interesting place, you could ask her what she thinks about some aspect of that place. Finally, after chatting for a while, ask the question "would you like to keep in touch?". This gives her the option of sharing her email or phone number without feeling obligated to give one or the other. If she gives you either, immediately offer yours. If she rejects the idea, or says something like "well, I often come here so maybe we can chat another time", then immediately respond with "oh, OK." and immediately walk away. Sometimes this will be enough to get her to come back and give you her contact information (because she feels guilty). If not, then she really doesn't like you that much. Remember, a lot of women are just thrilled that SOME MAN TALKED TO THEM (i.e., were attracted to them), but they are not really interested in you. This is something that can be determined later; if she really is interested in you she will have a conversation with you later on. If a girl laughs at your stupid jokes, SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, so get her contact information immediately, before she disappears from you forever (you never know if you will ever run into her again in the future).
2006-08-03 00:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by MJQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I can,, hit them hard enough that they can't call the cops to have your sorry azz put in jail for being a sexual predator rather than a caring individual interested in knowing them!!
2006-08-02 23:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Stop thinking of it as "hitting on" them and try to get to know a girl who seems interesting to you. And really listen to her instead of planning your next line while she's talking.
2006-08-03 00:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Arrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't hit on girls they don't like that.. Now we like to flirt. Eye contact VERY important, smile and be yourself. We can see when you are fake.
2006-08-03 00:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be urself(don't act macho)-they'll come 2 u like moths 2 a flame.
2006-08-03 00:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact, smiling, fish sandwiches,.....don't make them feel like a booty call...less of course that is your intention. Guys do that to me sometimes and I just won't pay them any attention....makes me feel to cheap..You want some one who cares at least a little bit, you know. Good luck.
2006-08-03 00:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone and wait for the right one to come along. You will know when it happens.
2006-08-02 23:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that just comes out of you i think you prolly know what to say and stuff basically just sweet talk to them hmmm tell them their pretty nice clothes etc
2006-08-02 23:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if you could interest them in a fish sandwich.
2006-08-02 23:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋