Origionally i was going to meet this boy but in the end i decided not to...we kept talking and the more talk the more i dont like him except he still really wants to meet me. I'm not very experienced with this kind of stuff. So i don't no how to hint to him anymore (and trust me there have been hints) that i dont want to meet him. By the way my sister was the one who introduced him to me. We started by talking on aim then we also talk on the phone sometimes but i dont like talking to him. I know it wont go anywhere so what do i say? I need help...please
2006-08-02 16:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG if you dont kno him like kno him kno him in person already dont go meet him ... he could try to rape u there r too many rapest out there trying to get girls... plz plz plz dont go meet him that is the worst thing u could do .. he may kill you... just dont ok its a horrible idea.
2006-08-02 17:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by krystal w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight in his face that you don't have any feels for him. Not even as a friend. By all means stop talking to him. The more you talk to him, the more he will think that he still stand a chance of meeting you and you giving him the chance. Understand?
2006-08-03 03:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dude straight out. That hes nice but you aren't feeling that its going anywhere and that you have changed your mind about meeting him. If he still can't get the message from that, then flat out tell him to move on. Because you hadn't really seen the talks or the meeting with him as any step towards anywhere you want to go.
2006-08-03 00:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight up with him. The only thing you are going to do with this guy is hurt him more. Especially if he hasn't taken any hints. If you just want to be friends with him then say that, If not then tell him you don't want him around or to call you anymore....but don't let him dangle...it will be harder to break it off in the end. And if he is a jerk about it then he wasn't worth your time to begin with.
2006-08-03 00:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by frankmanfore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're not interested in getting together as it wouldn't work so there is no point to meeting him. Some guys don't get hints, they need to be told directly, and that is really the kindest way to end something, anyway.
2006-08-03 00:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it in a simple term, u just need to tell him tt u don't wish to meet him. If u don't tell him the truth, he is still having some hope to meet up with u. Tell him the truth and let him wake up from his dreams. Don't let this sort of thing drag too long as it may have bad impact on u later on.
2006-08-03 00:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is nice but you have met someone else. Tell him you can still be his friend and talk once in a while. Maybe he will quit calling you.
2006-08-03 00:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have been sleeping with someone else and that you now have herpies from that (made up) jerk!
or you could just tell him to stop talking to you and delete him from your list and block his phone number off your phone.
be sure to tell your friend to NOT give him your address.
2006-08-03 00:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you got a new boyfriend.
or just say straight out that you are not interested in him in that way
2006-08-02 23:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth. men need the truth
2006-08-03 00:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by sahrun n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋